Damn Dude Is Hung!!!

I am a black guy man on the downlow and I recently I meet this other downlow professional brother and we started kicking it.  Here is my problem dude is just too "well endowed"(hung). I lie not when I tell you that is it least 14 inch long and 5 inches wide, it looks like a fat babies leg. He is so big that we can't get together two days in a row. Dude want to hit the azz every day but  I have to take time off to "recuperate".The first time we had sex I thought I was going to have to go to the hospital I bleed like I was on the rag, I borrowed a few of my wifes maxi-pads so I would not stain my pants. I like dude a lot but, I am not sure that thing should be in any hole, it is a beast and his ass like it rough. I got to put a pillow in my mouth to keep the whole hood from knowing what going on in my house. One day he throw my legs up put the head in and pulled me into him and that hole thing was in me in about 3 seconds. I screamed like a fat lady getting happy when pastor preaches. He like to hit it from the back and then throw my legs over his neck and hit it more. Don't get me wrong I love it too, but I don't see how anyone can take this dick on a regular. I pitty his wife, maybe she is not giving it up and so he needs to get it from me. What the hell am I going to do to keep his ass satisfied?