Getting Married Not In Love...

Getting married this weekend, but I don't love her, see I am a pastor of a church and I am of that age that I am expected to get married. The truth is that I am on the DL and to keep the attention off of me I thought I would get engaged. This thing has moved to quick for me, I already know that I will not be faithful, but if I call this off it will cause a lot of drama. I know what I should do, so I won’t ask what should a brother do, but I will ask for your comments.

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That is so pathetic...Y would u do this to anyone? You maybe fooling her but you are not fooling God. You know in your heart that it's not the right thing to do and if you are really a man of the cloth the word tells you man shouln't lay with other men. God destoryed a whole city because of sin like this. It's an ABOMINATION!!! GOD can set you free if that's what you really want. Not to say you wont still have desires but you can control it.

I am not here condemning you because I once to was living in sin. When I was doing wrong I didn't pretend and play with God as so many people do. I couldn't go to church and praise God knowing I was with a woman the night before. I will pray 4 u.

2008-08-11 05:23:07

Yes you are condeming him with your preachy hypocritical ass. The man asked for comments and some understanding not to be blasted by the likes of you.

Personally I feel for you brother. It has to be hard dealing with that kind of conflict in your heart. If you really don't want to marry this young lady then you shouldn't. Don't let society and the church fam push into something you don't want. Afterall they aren't the ones who have to live you life, you are. I hope you make the best choice for you. Good luck!!

2008-08-11 07:34:01

4rmdaboot,

Two words- be honest.

2008-08-11 09:12:45

ha,

this sounds like a no win situation but the truth is bound to come out. it's more drama to carry on than to hurry up and come clean

2008-08-11 19:52:54

Ask Mother Divine,

You a damn fool, why the hell you gona play with that girl like that. You know your ass wrong, leave that girl alone and call me, I bust up in that church and clean house. What size is the dress cause I am free Saturday.

Ding Dong Ding

2008-08-13 11:46:13

Mother Divine is a fraud !!!!! You da damn fool

2008-08-13 14:01:50

MS Jaded,

haha at Mother Divine...
dude, u need to come clean, why live a lie, it is going to bother yr conscience, if you have one that is...

2008-08-30 12:09:48

BeBe814,

Someone needs to condemn him! It isnt right! Not just the whole homosexual thing but to make a promise to a woman whom you do not love or really want to be with before the Lord, IS WRONG! You should come clean now before you let this go any further. You are only hurting her and making the situation worse by letting it go on as far as it has. Why be ashamed or worried about what others think of who you really are?

2008-09-04 11:50:19

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