Just don't know

r u stupid or jst a dumb azz bitch? why the hell does he have to be gay because he likes that? u said that u guys r freaky during sex, so why is it surprising to u? u've been together 9 yrs., so either u know him and trust him or u don't. all y'all women r jst losing your damn minds being preoccupied with this "dl" shyt. i guess next he'll be gay because he likes u suckin his dic. plze grow up!!

2008-09-24 06:11:50

^ I concur! What really sucks is that YOU initiated it! I'm a STRAIGHT man with a gfirl that does it all the time. Repeat: A GIRL THAT DOES IT!!! Last time I checked, only same sex shit was gay. Enjoy your marriage and don't stop with the freaky shit because you've already opened the door. Otherwise, your man will find a woman more open

2008-09-24 06:22:30

I agree with those 2. this site has all the women thinking that their men r gay or bi-dl jus b.c. they like pleasure back there. that's ur husband and what u all do behind closed doors is sacred. enjoy him and let him enjoy u. all of u. don't think 2 much on that dl stuff b.c. it can and will ruin ir marriage

2008-09-24 06:50:53

agree with all the above. jl king scared all the blk and latino women across the us just to make money. i know some couples (male/ female) who've been enjoying each other for over 20 yrs freaks and some marriages got tested all because of the paranoia created by the dl obsession. the body has so many erogenous zones, alot not even explored yet. do you have a problem when you husband eats your ass and pussy? Most women don't so why can't he want the same thing if it's enjoyable. You've invested 9 yrs and you and he know each other. You initiated a new foreplay item don't run from the results. Enjoy each other because life is too short to follow all the hype w/o reason...reason is different.

2008-09-24 07:00:50

Sorry for the harsh language my sista, but u touched a nerve with what u said. Instead of asking other people their opinion, talk to ur husband. If he's taking care of home and not running the street hoin', give the brotha what u started and he evidently likes. As u said, u had the problem, he didn't. Jst talk to the man!

2008-09-24 15:15:55

TO respond to ru4real...thanx for apologizing about your first comment,it was kinda harsh. I do trust my husband and love him very much it's just that his enjoyment caught me off guard. We've been together 9 yrs. so I know why I ask what I ask. Me licking his ass and him liking it isn't the only sign that he has given me just the most obvious one. It was a huge mistake me coming on this sight. I'm gonna talk to my man and figure it out.

2008-09-25 00:56:30

thanks for accepting my apology. again, u've been together for 9 yrs., so don't let this destroy ur relationship/marriage unless there is no away around it. talk and figure it out.....and work through it. my best to you!

2008-09-25 06:33:41

U a bitch say what you mean and mean what you say. Why u backing down now, u fucking her husband. Seem like you may know him getting all crazy and shit. Or are you cheating on your girl...hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

2008-09-25 07:19:46

trust me, i'm not backing down from what i said. i apologized for how harshly i said it....re-read the comment!

2008-09-25 07:56:59

Damn you all were kinds harsh on a sista... I can understand why she should be concerned... Up until recently men nor women understand the anus is the ergonzenous zone for men. Their G-spot... We have all been taught to think that having anything to do with the ass is nasty and for men it might they were gay or Bi and all that shit. Sista gurl should be able to voice her concern and get some input with you guys fussing her out. Author it was not a mistake to come here and ask. It is a confession site for all.
I wish you luck and if there is smoke there is fire so if you have any questions that may make you think your man is suspect..Look into it. You know you man better than we do.

2008-09-25 08:00:01

Sorry about the typos above but you get the point...

2008-09-25 08:01:00

For the persom who wrote the last comment, thanx for having my back. Your advice was very helpful. I'm just gonna keep track of everything that makes me wonder about my husband so that when I do decide to speak to him about it, I'll have examples to back up my suspicions. Thanx again for your advice and to everyone else as well.

2008-09-26 01:47:50

Yo ma I tried it a few times til my wife got too comfortable smacking my ass and shit moving her face side to side so my ass could wiggle and shit now that I feel was crazy but that don't mean he gay I know women who hit they dudes doggy style from the back and they aint gay so I think so just fall back and keep eating the dookie shoot...lol I'm just playing

2008-09-27 01:32:08

To girl 6, thats not true about everything a married couple do behind closed doors is "SACRED", there's nothing "SACRED" about eating out buttholes im sorry to tell ya, just had to comment on that part....

2008-09-28 13:43:37