Need Help!!!

How you ever gotten into something that you Didnt regret but couldnt move foward? Heres the story: I have been in a relationship with the same dude for about 6or7 yrs. now. Recently, I have been feeling like the relationship is going now where (hes dl and "high society", not married though). So instead of leaving dude alone, I stepped outside of the relationship wit another dude. I didnt exactly tell dude2 bout dude1 (its been about 5mnths) and dude2 finds out about dude1 unexpectedly, its a big fight and im still wit dude1 and dude2 wants nothing to do wit me. The problem is tht I cant stop thinkin bout dude2!! what can i do? is there anything i can do?

Comments

Peanut Butter,

No, there's not a lot you can do. Too late now but you should have been honest ages ago. Not being judgmental but really you are both cheaters - him on the DL and you not being honest with the other man that was in your life, and that's why the original man is still with you. I think that you lost your chance to move on with some one new. It may hurt but the best thing is to move on, and decide whether you want to move on from the DL guy as well. Bubt from now on try to be honest.

2010-02-03 07:54:14

author,

true, thanks for being real with me

2010-02-03 11:06:49

Look,

If mr dl high society can't give u his all, you need to move on. Period. Maybe if u broke it off, dude no 2 mite giv another go at it. Stop being a dl niggas jump off and get ur self respect back homie...

2010-02-03 11:40:24

Jay,

Yeah I would have to agree with butter...and also I have something kindof like that...and I learned that openly gay and dl don't mix...at first maybe cuz love is blinding (we do anything for the new one) but after time it get old and you won't want to cater to his needs anymore...

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2010-02-03 13:50:57

help your self shorty,

leave and start loving yourself

2010-02-06 20:21:14

Nope you fucked it up now you have to live with your actions - but dude why you don't leave dude1 he's holding you back from living meanwhile he's content cause he got his dl status in full effect and dangling you along... wise up.....

2010-02-08 12:19:16