If you don't know for sure if he will divorce you then that means he has not given you a clear sign that he is not down for that sort of thing.. I would casually bring it up that you had a "experience" with a female while in college or whatever... and you were wondering what his thougts were on it or ask him what he thinks about women having sex together and then depending on his response ask if he would like to get down or if he would have a problem with you getting down, whatever you do act very nonchalant about it.. you can take your cue from there. Whatever you do, DONT let him know all the details about you and your previous chicks.

2008-09-26 17:01:18

Cont'd
Men are weak minded and can not handle anything they think could or was a threat unless they feel they are in control of it.

2008-09-26 17:02:25

It's better to get it off your chest than to be thinking about it unsure of what will happen or what he will say...

2008-09-26 17:03:07

I would tell you may be able to bring a friend home . Then you can have the best of both worlds

2008-09-26 17:19:57

Child did he know about your past? Would he go for a threesome? Sounds like you got an itch that needs to be scratched get you ass some calamine lotion. That will take care of that itch and stay your ass out the bush I mean bushes.

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2008-09-26 22:46:30

This is something you should of discussed with him before you got married. Don't you think that was important enough to mention to him before? I agree with the first comment, bring it up as casual conversation.

2008-09-27 00:50:12

its not like i slept around with women b4 we hooked up. i didnt tell him because i suppressed them and thought it would go away. i figured that i wasnt bisexual i figured that i just thought women cute and felt confident enough to admit that i can say another woman looks good. but the truth is, i want a woman. wow!! cant believe i am admitting to this!

2008-09-27 17:10:15

Is there something in the water because it seems like everyone wants to lick a pussy and suck a dick from the same sex... I would only saw be true to you and let your hubbie know. If he does not understand or sympathize with you and your feelings and try to work something out that will work for both of us and keep your marriage intact, he is not the man for you. Move on before you are old and miserable.

2008-09-28 09:43:51