should i tell moms?

ever since i could remember i have been sexually attracted to women i had a boyfriend but i never felt any attraction i wanna tell my mother but she is the type of person if she see's anything gay on T.V she jus flips out and says "what has the world come 2" and repeats passages in the bible which makes me think if she acts like that to ppl she dont kno i might get an even worse reaction frm her i love my mother 2 death she as always been there for me i'm 16 now and a junior in high school how do i tell her dat im gay?

Comments

Maybe,

You should pose a hypothetical question the next time she sees something on tv & starts going off, ask her how she would feel if one of her kids were gay. That will probably be the ice breaker you need to open up to your mom. Good luck

2009-07-15 22:53:09

justellingthetruth,

FIGHT THE POWER! Don't let a perverse thought manifest itself. The mind is the devils playground. Everything begins as a thought and if you don't fight it...it will only grow. Resist the devil and he will flee. Those feelings will go away. If you begin to act on them, they will only get stronger and soon you'll begin to think...I was made this way! THE DEVIL IS A LIAR!!!

2009-07-16 02:46:01

Just tell her she's your mom she loves you and even if she gets angry initially she will eventually accept you as you are and if she doesn't at least you told her. You have the right to live your life the way you want... good luck.

2009-07-16 07:25:33

hmmmmmmmm,

Contact your local gay support group. There should be one in your area. Try pflag.com. Speak to a counselor there. Maybe they can help mediate you coming out to her

2009-07-16 09:47:06

hey,

Go ahead and tell your mom. I know its hard but time will pass and you'll still be her daughter. Understand your mom and where she is coming from. Like her past and up bringing. Shes your mother and will raise you until you're 80yrs old. Honestly is the way. The truth will set you free.

2009-07-16 15:11:56