The Strap

imma a lesbian and i have been for the last 6 years.i have had sex with a guy..it wasnt enjoyable AT ALL. not that it hurt or anything like that, but the feeling just wasnt there. which leads me 2 my current relationship. me and my grl have been together for 2 years and im a sex ADDICT. she isnt..but nonetheless.she puts up with it and doesnt complain. (sometimes)..but the problem is..wen we have sex she always wants to use the strap. i HATE IT. the only time i can ever cum wen she straps me is wen she fucks me from behind because n that position i can play with my pussy and pleasure myself...question: is it normal not to have any satisfaction from penetration?or is there some technique to try. ive tried using dif size,shape,and curved straps..NOTHING PLEASES ME..what is a lesbian to do

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iQon,

If nothing pleases you, then you have a very serious problem. Talk to your partner and have her to compromise when using the strap, OMG, I cannot believe I'm discussin' this kinda stuff, online. But, anyway, use your negotiation skills, and come to some amicable compromise with your partner where you sometimes use the strap on, OMG, there it goes again, discussin' strap on's with women. W.oooo.W!...lol!

But work out something with your partner where you get to use the strap on and do her, sometimes. Therefore, you don't start to build up resentment against your partner; then the real problems will start because you will then become irked when she touches you..

Vibin' to Beyonce'z-Resentment!

[Chorus:]
I only give you a hard time
'Cause I can't go on and pretend like
I haven't tried to forget this
But I'm much too full of resentment..

iQon!

2008-12-07 14:21:12

Go for what,

you know. A lot of woman don't get off w/ just penetration. Do what chu like girl...

Anyways

Dueces

2008-12-07 14:36:08

Nope,

I don't think there is a thing wrong with you. Most lesbians or butch ones don't like penetration. That is the whole point of being a lesbian to some.

2008-12-07 17:15:51

Guest,

Maybe you should consider consulting a sex therapist. Be honest with your girlfriend and tell her you don't like the strap. I can only assume she keeps putting the strap on because she thinks you want it.

2008-12-07 21:41:25

It has nothing to do with being lesbian because I am a straight woman and I have never, in all my 13 year sexual career, had an orgasm throught just penetration. My clit had to be stimulated during penetration.

2009-01-13 20:10:00

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