I am a 19 year old female that need some advice. Well i just started dating my senior year of high school the guy i dated was really nice to me and respected how i wanted to wait till marriage to have sexual intercourse. well as time passed and our relationship grew stronger we just did oral and nothing more than that well in the mid of our freshman year of college he started avoiding me and and not returning my calls or text so i just said "EFF IT" and after two months he started calling me alot. And because i loved him so much i let him back in my life so christmas break comes and we exchange gifts and all that sweet stuff lol... now i am a very very very sweet person and im understanding i sometimes i am too nice and i am about '4'11' and weigh 105 pouds i am a chocolate colored girl i have long curly blck hair and perfect teeth am always laughing and smiling but overall i think im pretty darn good looking.... also another thing about me is that im a hustla i will work and work to get money seriously i am all about my cake but anyway i stack alot of my money and i work in college so anyway this cat knows i always have money and said he would pay me back if i got him some jordan package so im like yeah i will do it as long as u pay me back and so he is like ok so this guy is telling me how much he loves me and i am such agood girlfriend and i bought him the package which was $333.00 i feel ok because i know he  was giving me my money back and as time passed he started asking me to have sex and why i did i want to wait till marriage and saying i need to grow up and we need to move our relationship to another level and im like "Grow up you go to college for FREE i work cause i have to pay for my own education" he faild his classes got in drugs and still i was there for him and listen when he was going through bad times but anyway he didnt talk to me for a week and i text him like "whats up" he text me back saying :he cant do the relaionship anymore and how  his life was fucked up. right after that i was sad i cried then i was in jail someone stole my identity and it was a lo of bull... i had not spoken to him the whole summer i got a text from my friend she tells me she met a girl she worked who claimed that she was seeing him the whole freshman year and they went out of town together and how they were still together. i was so sad i felt used and bad about myself and so i just tol my friend that was effed up and she shows me what the girl looks like and she is a mixed light skinned female with long hair but she isnt that pretty and i knew he had a thing for light girls that confirmed it but anyway i guess they broke up in july cause this nigga had his friends message me and he was texting me so just because i want my money back im being nice to him but those feelings are still there i hang out with him and i want to be more than cool.... so what im asking is should i leave it alone and take as loss and a lesson learned or should i continue to be cool with him so i can get my money back and let my feelings start to get the best of me ??????