drinking with one of my best friend

Why WOULD you tell her?.....You're not married. That's her problem for settling for a fuck buddy.

You don't love her.... Think about it. Love is what love does.

And the drink lowered your defenses to what you already wanted to do.

LOL.. one day people will realize the wisdom in getting married. It simply puts the brakes on a lot of this shit whether we to recognize it or not.. Happens all the time.

2010-07-28 05:42:54

Married men cheat on their wives just as much as - if not more than people who are just dating. You THINK it puts the brakes on this behavior, but they just get better at hiding it cuz they have more at stake if they get caught.
@ the author - you wont kiss dude cuz your lips belong to your girl...but your dick is ok to share???? How do you sound? I dont want to hear my man kissed another man, but would take it better than hearing he FUCKED another man. Get your mind right sweetie

2010-07-28 06:28:29

^^^ Married do cheat a lot. But it's safe to say more married folk are faithful than those who are just "dating". Many respect their vows. But if you don't even have a vow?.....Anything goes and you can only blame youself for not having anything in the end to show for the "risk" you put your life in being with a cheater.

2010-07-28 07:53:15

Real Deal you referring to those married people like the Dream, Tiger, Tameka Foster, Mel Gibson, Brad Pitt, Naomi Campbells Russian married Russian lover, and the countless others who fucked around on their mate... doesn't matter if you married or not if you think you can get away with it and you get an opportunity and you have that kind of disposition then you will cheat period. As for the author of this post you're soooo gross..... if you don't tell her and she finds out you may find yourself dickless and missing a ball.

2010-07-28 08:48:55

Real Deal wtf are talking about? Ima have to disagree with you. People need to date before getting married right? so why would he just consider her a fuck buddy. Look im happy you found your self and your into doing the right thing but for you to say that this is this girls problem is just wrong. Obviously its more then just a fuck buddy situation cause if that was the case then he wouldnt have been doing anything wrong.

@ author your scandalous PERIOD. I dont give a fuck how drunk you were when u first did it. I think you need to leave that poor girl alone she deserves better

2010-07-28 10:01:36

@ Miss Lady ,There is a lot that goes on subconsciously with our interpersonal relationships and when they turn "sexual" it messes with the head and emotions. No one wants to admit it but we all intuit that u r downgraded a notch or 2 or 3 depending on your background when u hv sex before marriage in the eyes of a man.Men rationalize that u fukn him u will fuk some1 else esp n this day and age. So he doesn't care what he does. He jus acts like the animal he thinks he has the evolutionary right to be. As n the case of the author. You can "date" without having sex. Shocking for most ppl but true. You may jus discover n time this person can't hold ur longterm interest. But if u gon fuck , your in the game.. PERIOD. You are at risk to alot of things. Treachery and health risks. You put yourself out there at that pt.


case n pt. This chick don't even know the company her "man" keep. One of his bestfriends is s dick sucker. You need to know somewhat who u fuk wit. She don't have a clue

2010-07-28 11:19:15

In short,, get to know who u dealing with b4 you fuck them.. date without sex , or wait till you married. you wiill spare yourself some misery. But who wants to do that? So you get what you pay for. Author obviously didn't "love" his chick enough to keep from gettin his dick blown by a bestfriend. Birds of a feather flock together. His girl didn't do her homework well enough before she opened her legs.. So it's HER PROBLEM. He naturally don't see the need to tell her anything. No real commitment. No nothing. She chose that!

2010-07-28 12:14:24

@ Real Deal
you just said some shit that I am not following. Im lost so fuck it lol we are not seeing eye to eye on this subject

2010-07-28 12:29:47

@Miss Lady
In short i'm sayin. HE said he not telling her. I'm sayin why should he? He not married. And she chose to deal with someone and SLEEP with someone she don't really know. All of that comes with consequences. He don't feel obligated to tell her a damn thing naturally. And really what right has she established to KNOW anything? They aren't married.
So the final point is SHE put herself at any risk incurred from this deceitful relationship with someone who at this point is confused.

2010-07-28 14:29:35

"The Real Deal & Miss Lady Show"

2010-07-28 14:55:35

@ Real Deal so how do you know she doesnt know him?

2010-07-28 18:01:03

SLUTBUCKET...ILL....

2010-07-28 18:49:58

you know you and you know your woman. Just do you.

yeah, I think your right, Real Deal & Miss lady do like to rub pussies together. I hope the organisms were hot like volcanic lava

2010-07-28 22:58:40

ment to say orgasm, my bad

2010-07-28 23:05:33

@ Hey Bro.. Fuck you man! You don't know what you meant to say. You jus as much a pussy bein on here as you think I am. Sorry ass bruh tryna call me out .
And that stupid advice "do you" ,, ??/ That's what get alot of mofos in deep shit.

@ Miss Lady ,.. you may be on to sumthn. Mayb his chick know he got dick suckers as best friends. Seriously do you think them as best friends didn't pick up on sum "gay tendencies" btwn each other. The exact reason y something like that went down.?

In the end it don't really matter. They not married. She fukn him. So she can't really trip. You don't trust what ppl say,, u trust what they DO , like make vows. And vows that come with CONSEQUENCES if you break them.
Nature teach us with diseases , treachery the wisdom of getting married. No reason to feel sorry for chicks that get decieved and have absolutely NO RECOURSE to get compensated.
I brought this all up becuz he said "I won't tell her ever". That's a non - issue. It's HER PROBLEM.

2010-07-29 05:23:39

Lol . People gon get enough of that "do you" = "do what thou wilt" shit. It spells misery. Man the fuck up and get some self-control.
@ Hey Bro.. entertain me. Ima wait for a lame ass reply from you. Give YOU some "pussy" to eat. I hate fightn wit my people. But when they come off whack , it's gon get settled.

I'm waitn.. Bring some substance. Cause I got some mental dick for yo ass, trust!

2010-07-29 05:29:15

LMAO @ organisms.

2010-07-29 09:54:39

WOW, my man, if you want to do it again then you may be bi. Why is it that people make kisses so intimate. You lick a pussy, eat an azz and suck a dick but can't kiss. STUPID...

2010-07-30 03:54:35

yes so don't get caught lol

2010-08-13 07:02:16