okay i have been with this african dude for 2 years just about.
our relationship is okay but there has been things left unsaid and i am not ready to put all the cards on the table like that not just yet.
anyway, i have cheated on this man like 9 times with men and women. and he doesnt know about it.till this day he think i have never cheated.
well, my troubles in this relationship started after i made a vow to myself not to cheat on him no more. i cheated on him in may 2009
i found out on my birthday that he has cheated on me with some girl and caught him having phone relationships with two other women
and he brought home an std in july2009
then later that year i caught him cheating on me, this was a trip let me tell you how this shit happened.
okay after finding out that he has a tendancy to cheat, i started to watch him carefully, i notice he would find strange reasons to use my car and leave and he would come back after 3 hours each time.so one day i walked down the street, mind you i stay on a college campus in an apartment, and like the whole time i'm walking i'm thinking "let me see this nigga car!' and to my suprise, i seen his shit sitting in front of this ratched bitch name ROSE house!! (OKAY THIS IS THE SAME BITCH I CAUGHT HIM AT THE STORE WITH EARLIER THAT YEAR) so i knocked on the door raised hell, scratched his car and walked back to my place, police came told me i had done over 2000 dollars worth of damage and he drop the charges. the next day he knocked on my door said he was sorry. I went ahead and put on a smile and went on vacation with him he spent about 2000 on me and his self of course but mostly on me. when we came home, he must have felt really bad cause he was just giving me head and one time i let him eat my pussy when my period was on twice, then i would spit in his food, i cause water damage to his lap top, and i am planning on penning a baby on his ass, (dont shake your head at the baby comment, hell he wants to fuck without comdoms.) my reasons is he is handsome and black got a big dick smart certified welder inspector and a professional soccer player and he pays my bills. i am not on here complainning about shit. i told know i am wrong for letting this shit go on like this but i think this is a simple game of chess. oh yeah also i like to use the old ' i have never cheated on you or did you wrong!' line... resently, though i went to the club and yeah i talked to a few dudes but i seen him giving a hug to this girl, and yes i got mad, so to cut this story short we had gotten into our first physical fight. i want that to be the last fight. I am officially through playing games!!!