Men dont want good women PART 2

He called me last night claming he got off work late and was too tired to come see me or talk to me on the phone, he even pretended to fall asleep on the phone. So I checked the phone records this morning and he called this bitch twice at about 4 am. Who do you know answers their phone at 4am? Im assuming he was with that bitch and called when he got home to let her know he got home ok. For the comentors on my other post, I plan on breaking up with him after the bills are paid and the phone is cut. He lies too well for me to stay with him. This playing dumb is getting to me i dont know how much longer i can carry on like this cus i really want to tell him about himself. I called this bitch, ofcourse from a private # and from my friends phone and she dont answer so ima wait till next time he come here n he fall asleep early ima call her from his phone cuz I know shw will answer that.

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And i have a good mind to drop his $500.00 blackberry in some water. Since he aint on my plan no more he cant use the insurance.

2009-03-02 06:25:53

LISTEN!,

Now I know you are mad and hurt because of his lying and cheating. BELIEVE ME I DO. I have just gone thru something similar. BUT thru it all you have got to keep your mind right and your head up. Now you can't change the fact that he is cheating and lying. He is gonna be with her or someone else regardless of what you do and how you feel. The trick is to be smart about it. One thing someone told me before and I wish I would have listened is you ALWAYS have to have fuck you money on reserve. No matter if you are married or not. Calling her and going all crazy is only going to make matters worse. You will only find out more of what you already know and hurt even more. And this is a hard pill to swallow. He is just not the man for you and it is his lost. Try to get out of this the best way you can and don't blame all men or even the chick, he is telling her the same lies he is telling you. Breaking up is hard to do. Just see this as a lesson learned.

2009-03-02 08:07:36

baby girl,

just let it go! nothing is worth losing your sanity.

2009-03-02 08:13:31

sadi3mo3t,

i know how u feel baby girl i been through this ordeal before. i learned from what my ex did to me. i'm stronger now.

2009-03-02 08:21:09

lov myself first,

listen cut hium loose youn don't need it you r not the problem he is they always want to run aroun but let the other female have him she will be the girl and he will be cheating on her with someone else leave them to time

2009-03-02 10:56:52

swetie listen,

I hear what everyone is saying and I disagree. We all have been where she is right now. It's harder to be the bigger person. I know when I went thru the cheating thing, I just thought about everything the sex, the money spent, good times, and you know what pissed me the most? The muthafucking time! I can have everything else but my time and for that ladies I had to make her pay. Someone said sanity well in order for me not to kill her ass, I hatched a four month plan. Now I didn't feel great about it afterwards because I truly loved her with all my heart but i thought about it was she loving me while fucking the next brother? HELL NO so sweetie do whatever going to bring a close to this chapter in your life hell do a me invite her over and him half hour later and get it out in the open fuck it

2009-03-02 12:22:29

BARBIE,

@sweetie lieten,, hey Im with you on that one.. Do what ever you gonna do and be done with it, ya know??? The fact that your keeping it inside is going to drive you crazy.. I know ( been there, done that, cought a charge).. Now, you just want to get even,, now thats a horse of a different color.. LOL, but confrunting them both is a good way to get it over with.. And b-4 you go and do a Jasmine or some thing, ask your self " Do I REALY want to know???? See right now your at the point when you have proof but not facts. It's the facts that hurt honey, and if your not ready to know the facts then what are you going to do???? Will you stay?? Ask your self that b-4 heading out the door to do what ever you deside... Once you leave dont turn back,, we make that mistake tooooooo often...

2009-03-02 12:53:50

Swetie Listen,

I'm with Barbie, I didn't want to know thought it would pass but the facts hit my ass in my own house checking the security tapes. Please be sure your ready to confront because once it go's down it's a wrap! Not all of us cheat on our wives, girlfriends
I'm really sorry I hope you fine someone to treat you right babygirl!

2009-03-02 15:00:53

realtalk,

I honestly think that every time a man cheats, a woman has to take at least 50% of the blame. I mean try to take feelings out of the situation and ask yourself: Have I gained weight? Am I arguing all the time? Do I know how to cook/clean? Am I refusing sex or unwilling to try new things? I know a lot of the women on here might get upset with this post, but most dudes I know really just want to be with one woman. When that one woman isn't living up to what she was about in the beginning, that's when we stray

2009-03-02 17:08:06

Authors's Reply to Real Talk,

I hear you but I never did anything wrong. Im not gon talk like im the perfect woman but. i dont cheat i dont lie i dont decieve. I dont bitch i dont nag, the sex is good and we do try new things (except for a 3some) I cook for this nigga everyday when he gets home I give him back massages I took care of him when he was sick. When hes broke I help him take care of his shit and the is my pay back. Yo this year for valinitines day i went all out for this nigga and you know what i got....NOTHING. did i complain NO every weekend since then he has been promising to make up for valintines and i still have recieved nothing just stories of what he plans to do. Maybe he he does want to be with one female. He wants to me to be his main bitch while he runs arround and fucks everthing else. I dont accept that. You either gon be with me and me only or you not gon be with me at all. He made his choice and he lost a good woman. His lost not mine. I can do bad by myself.

2009-03-02 18:16:59

@realtalk,

Most of what you are saying is true..I've researched and interviwed several men b4 for a paper I was writing...and my conclusions were this: there are 2 types of cheaters 1) is the man you just described above..he is the one whose woman isn't playing her part or doing her womanly duties which are things you've stated above BUT the 2) and most common is the man who is just greedy, he is the one who's woman is amazing, has all the great qualities but HE just can't get enough of women and can NOT just be with one! He has to have wifey and a few side chicks

From,
StoryTella

2009-03-03 12:18:29

realtalk,

@ the author: I sincerely hope you find happiness with someone else. I was just speaking on the majority of fellas I know. This cat might just not appreciate what he has (or had) in you. The best thing to do now is leave the situation. Don't worry about revenge because when you do, you're just inviting negative energy into your life. Good luck, sweetheart

2009-03-03 16:31:31

Zoey,

I know you've heard this before, but I'm going to say it again, even a damn dog get tired! So, you will know when it's time for you to go on with your life. Only You have to be tired. Baby, if can't love yourself, then how in hell are you going to love someone else? The best thing is the hardest thing. Not calling you studpid but we all have been stupid behind love in all of our life time, and trust me but when your tired you'll know, and don't turn back. Just a lesson learned and a stronger person for the next obstacle in life. Life is nothin but a easy lesson, you live and learn and just know how to handle bullshit when it comes your way.

2009-04-16 04:21:33

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