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DL Bi Brutha

I have been DL Bi & Married for over 15yrs, I only dealt w/other married men. No one has a clue I am DL because I do not do the hook up thing, The married kats I dealt with were Boyz, only one of the married guys wife know whom was ok w/it, I am hoping, in search of a lady who will be ok with me being DL Bi as well. since my divorce over 5 yrs ago I have only dealt with married women, I found they only require little of my time which allows me to do my DL thing. I am Happy, not confused, do not wish to be Gay or open. I can say I feel I am not doing wrong by the women because they are also cheating on there husbands, currently I am seeing 3 married woman, and a married DL Preacher, all of whom I see when time permits and I am happy. I am only missing that 1 down female who can deal with me being bi and still in search of here, Iknow for a fact there are alot out there, just haven't crossed my path.... to be con't

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Guest,

Do what makes you happy, don't pay these sexually frustrated Christian women on here no mind. What they need is a good F*ck down. I bet the will be writing all kind of confessions if they get that 13.5 big d*ck brother. Look at them smiling.

2008-05-22 01:01:03

Guest,

s a str8 chick, i have to confess that only recently i realized that SO MANY MEN are on the dl. makes me super triple xtra cautious now. i don't trust anybody, and i am watching my sons so they won't fall into this crazy phenomeno

2008-05-22 01:01:08

Guest,

Women lie all the time a lie is a lie.

2008-05-22 01:02:19

Guest,

Tru dat bruh women are doing the same thing, I know some women who are married and they are bi! My wife.

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

yep there are a lot of bi women!!!!

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

There is alot of DL Bi Women, but no one speaks on that....

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

Regardless of it they are what's out there, you are still wrong as hell! And you do feel bad about not telling the \"married\" women you are gay (there is no such thing as a bi male) because you mentioned it twine. So sad. Be honest with yourself at least. Then maybe you will find a women who's down. SUS!

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

con't.... Gay means strictly w/men, bi means f*ck women & men......

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

You are sick dude & you really need to realize that you are GAY...if you have sex with the SAME SEX that means you are HOMOSEXUAL... Main Entry: 1hoÃ‚Â·moÃ‚Â·sexÃ‚Â·uÃ‚Â·al Listen to the pronunciation of 1homosexual Pronunciation: \\Ã‹Å’hÃ…Â-mÃ‰â„¢-Ã‹Ë†sek-sh(Ã‰â„¢-)wÃ‰â„¢l, -Ã‹Ë†sek-shÃ‰â„¢l\\ Function: adjective Date: 1892 1 : of, relating to, or characterized by a tendency to direct sexual desire toward another of the same sex 2 : of, relating to, or involving sexual intercourse between persons of the same sex Ã¢â‚¬â€ hoÃ‚Â·moÃ‚Â·sexÃ‚Â·uÃ‚Â·alÃ‚Â·ly adverb

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

@You are sick dude Just because a man has sex with a man does not make him gay. There are a lot of bi sexual men and women who like men and women. If it is not your thing fine move on and stop trying to make everyone fit in the same box.

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

@You are sick dude I agree, if this is not for you pass it by, your negative comments are not needed, Just thinking.... Something brought you to this site, to include the Title \"DL Bi Brutha\" curiosity...... Ask yourself why am I reading this..... Do you have a fantasy, thoughts of getting pounded by a dude? Just wondering what brought you here.....

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

AS LONG AS UR HANDSOME AND FINANCIALLY SECURE I WOULD CONSIDER HOOKING UP

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

May I just say as a female, the #1 way AIDS gets spread is from homosexual men. If you are gay thats fine do you but don't dip into the females because thats how diseased gets spread. For all you down low guys you disguse me, be real men and fess up if you like guys like guys but don't try to hide behind a female and get her caught up in that nastiness! nothing against gays just guys who are afraid to admit they are gay.

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

YUK

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

Man or woman if you are having sex with multiple partners you should let them know. I just hope you are protecting your self and your partners.

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

A.I.D.S

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

Con't**** DL Bi Brutha I am not disguising my DL Bi lifestyle, I like P*ssy & @ss, it's apples & oranges. I dont know who or why ppl assume we are covering up from coming out of the closet based on societies thoughts, not true... Again Apples & Oranges, the majority of men like / love sex w/ F & M's does not mean we wish to be gay... Understand!!! Women come on this site w/so much hatred, ignorance, etc.... In all reality ur man may be DL.... U will be suprised of how many DL men that are out there, if they are like me u will never find out & u are not infected, so dont assume DL men are spreading HIV, see my original confession, I have been DL Bi forever & never been burned, I am always practicing safe sex M or F... Educate urself & dont be ignorant... on the real u may be talkin about your own man, think about it.....

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

Are they telling there husbands about me..... Well why should I have to share who I am sexin, my bizness, do u tell ur mate when u cheat?

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

Yeah women do it all the time, but men are the ones who pass diseases! I am not saying that you can't get an STD from a woman. But statistically speaking, you are at greater risk for getting a disease from a man than a woman. Ask your doctor!

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

I am sooooo sick of you DL men, me personally I think you will all go to hell. How can you sleep at night knowing you are lying to your mate that is the opposite sex and putting that persons life in jeapordy...Its nothing wrong with being bi but, be honest. Its just not fair to juggle someone elses life at your terms its just plain wrong...You Will See!!!...Karma is a Mo` Fo`

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

Per the bible you will BURN in hell. 1st for commiting adultrey, 2nd sleeping with the same sex, 3rd fornicating whether the sex is protected or not. This is not GOD's plan, we will all fall short of the glory of GOD, but where the danger comes in at is when we recognize, but continue to do as we please. I pray for this world.day and age, but I can't wait til JESUS returns......GOD Bless!!!

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

women doing it more than men but quick to point the finger our race all screwed up

2008-05-22 04:16:56

Guest,

Go to school. Graduate. Make six figures. You might find someone to marry you just for the money. You need $x00,000. Obviously, you don't with all this free time you have to juggle so many people. You are a health hazard. Too many partners at once.

2008-05-23 20:22:24

Guest,

I have been studying this behavior for sometime now, and I think it is really sad. How can you say you are not homosexual if you are sleeping with the same sex? I hear DL men say all the time that they're not gay because they do not carry any emotional attachments. That is the most pathetic thing I ever heard in my life. PLEASE look up the definition of what a homosexual is! I'm not worried and neither will I judge, but Jesus is coming back soon and I pray that you repent and god has mercy!

2008-05-24 19:59:02

Guest,

*** Owner of confession *** I have neva been w/std I have been dl bi married over 20 yrs, the thing w/me is I dont hook up w/any1 like other dl men, I am selective, they also have to be DL married, safe sex always.... even safe sex w/woman... The solution is woman except your man is DL or stay single, a great chance your man is DL, seriously, no one supects me at all... if you except your man wont be out there sexin anything whenever he gets a free min..... 2 of the married dudes kats I dealt w/there wives knew... except it or stay single, we will all be safer, and dont say my man aint u are only fooling urselves, read the post, there are Preachers who are DL, I left the one I was dealing w/because I found out he was out there hooking up when I was not available, he's married and out there doing hook ups....

2008-05-25 08:35:24

Guest,

Women need to read the new book by Joy Marie, \"The Straight-Up Truth About The Down-Low: Women Share their stories of betrayal, pain and survival.\" Go to www.straightuptruth.co

2008-05-27 05:22:23

Guest,

from a str8 chick-i do not like the idea of suck in a joint that has been in an azz. it's just like eating dooky aint it yucky poo

2008-05-27 07:21:50

Guest,

I think it is possible for a man to be bisexual and not be considered \"gay\". If a woman can have sex with other women and still want a man in their life, then a man can do the same. I have to admit, I am open to alot of things but I couldn't except a bisexual man in my life. I think bisexual is just a path to gaytown. I wouldn't want to invest my heart and body into someone who will let me down later on down the road. Or even worst, I end up with AIDS. You are asking alot of woman you choose to deal with . I hope you find her because everybody needs somebody.

2008-05-30 12:56:01

Guest,

2008-05-30 12:56:02

Guest,

Yo first of all i'm gay period. Just family knows and i dont sleep around with everyone. You shouldnt. Ive been with 1 person for the last year and im satisfied. Our household income is 80k a year. So i dont have a need to sleep around i get what i need from home. And to all the mad woman, 1st to the one sister who claims she's watchin her son cause she doesnt want them to fall into the lifestyle. Being gay is not something you can prevent. Its not cancer! I know alot of people who parents tried to watch them and it didnt work. You love your kids for who they are, but what you do is you encourage them to use safe sex and be with one person find one person and settle down. And i agree with you all on 1 thing dudes do need to stop lying to these woman and saying the straight or stop sleeping with them or expressing interest in them if they're gay and fellas if you bi then you NEED to tell these ladies that you are bi.

2008-06-09 11:27:58

Guest,

your are sick and crazy if you don't realize you sir are gay to the bone. you need to grow up jerk.

2008-06-10 21:27:39

Guest,

As long as you keep it real with the woman you become interested in, youre good. I'm not saying to tell everyone woman that you exchange numbers with, but when you start feeling something or you can tell shes starting to feel something for you - tell her. She can either stay or she can go. I'm a bi female and either way it goes, its wrong but don't get married when you know you're bi - even if the female is ok with it. Adultry is adultry and the icing is already on the cake with you being bi so don't top it with a cherry by committing adultry. ~Suther

2008-06-11 08:01:08

Guest,

If you are at greater risk of geting a disease from a woman then stop spreading your legs for a man so easily. thats the real problem here. you have to responsible for your p*ssy the same way im responsible for my d*ck. DUH! Many women have insecurities about their men or the type of men they date and they project it onto the gay community (fact babies)

2008-06-12 16:34:46

Guest,

o excuse me, the bi community. ( and there is a such thing as bi-sexual folks

2008-06-12 16:35:53

Mother,

The only question that i have to ask or that i ponder with all these bi-sexual men is can i trust a man to help me raise my son his 3 and i fear that a DL-man might rape my son??Should i think this way??

2008-07-01 04:37:05

As far as the gay/bi thing I think the DL men are just scared insecure men who don't want to be honest with themselves and just admit that they are gay. If you are bi you are still gay don't try to call it another name so you can feel better about being homosexual. It is what it is you like the same sex. I know people don't like to be labled one thing or another but when it comes to having sex with the same sex your are what you are and you DL people men or women need to get over it. Oh and Mother I can feel where your coming from cause if he can't or won't come out and admit he likes men what's to stop him from doing something to your child. This is why "some" molesters molest. (Priest)

2008-07-09 13:10:58

I'MJUSSAYN,

YOUR AN AIDS/HIV TICKET WAITIN TO TE WRITTEN

2008-07-10 02:19:43

they are out there, i am one of them...i am married and have been with my man for over 10 years...we both considered ourselves to be very freaky and that freakiness just escalated...i guess we kind of turned each other out...he fantasized about me being with a female and before long I wanted to bang him in his azz...all came true and it works fine for us..our sex life is amazing...i think we are the perfect fit for each other because we both like sexual encounters that are unconventional....he likes to suck on my strap on b4 i bang his azz with it...i like to talk about how i want a female riding my face while he is banging me...wow i cant wait til tonight we gonna have some fun

2008-07-17 10:11:52

contined from previous comment....we are gonna have fun tonight...no we dont wont to get a divorce and leave each other...this is what works for US...whatever floats ur boat is how i look at it...he loves pucci and could never be without it...i love dyck and could never be without it...i think if we ever were to break up it would be hard for us to both find someone that was accepting of our sexual desires...not every man want their wife licking, fingering and fukcing their ass and not every husband is cool with a bi wife but again it works for us and i am sure there are lots of women like me

2008-07-17 10:17:21

I am also a downlow bi woman...... If women can like both sexes, so can men......

2008-07-23 08:14:35

MsLRR,

interesting that u still want a full time female relationship...

2008-07-26 10:00:23

tracylee,

your stupid, so you want a woman with low standards?

2008-08-07 14:10:45

Guest,

Why wouldn't you just be with a woman who will allow anal penetration? If you are truly not gay and the only thing you want is a tight ass? Honestly not trying to be smart, just trying to understand how you dl guys say you're not gay and don't want to be with a man. You just want to do them in the ass, is that it?

2008-08-30 18:17:53

well i am a dl bi women and i am open

2008-09-02 22:47:47

All u dl dudes are sick....dont trip tho women (real women) its a few ...at least 1 real nigga left. seems like its alot against me tho...looks like them c#ck suckers almost got me beat in this game....but nah...u cant lick my butt hole...or put yo finger near there when im on top hittin.if u do thats it.game ova.i'll have none of that dear.dl is gay.and animals???yall are sick up in here on this site. me?? i just found it yesterday..not much longer tho. preach.

2008-09-04 06:30:51

phatboybright,

I hate when people judge things they don't understand, but like i've always said thats they choice.

2008-09-19 15:52:27

guest,

do u know Jesus? He waiting on u, whenever u find ur way back, he's waiting.

2008-10-18 11:29:18

OK..........,

I AM BEGINNING TO THINK THAT ALL PEOPLE MAY EXPERIMENT AT ONE POINT IN THEIR LIVES OR ANOTHER. BUT WHY CAN'T YOU HAVE JUST ONE LOVE, ONE LOVER, WHETHER IT IS MALE OR FEMALE. THAT'S WHAT HURTS THE MOST IS THE STUPIDITY, IRRESPONSIBILITY, INFIDELITY AND GAMES. WHAT YOU WANT? A DICK IN YOUR ASS OR A WOMAN?

2008-10-28 03:29:19

Starleonina,

Just give into your urges and go all out homosexual. There's no use in using us women for beards now.

2008-11-02 01:59:07

summer time,

this shit is crazy and totally disrespectful. Being gay is your choicebut at least let a chick know that way she has a CHOICE to fuck with you or not

2008-11-03 16:20:24

SASSY,

U r a nasty inconsiderate muthfukka! U wrorng! Ur Gay and there's no getting around that! Have respect for the women ur messin with! There are too many STD's going around amoung BLK ppl and this is the main cause of it! If u wanna be wit men be wit men please don't go be women after that pic ur lifestyle and stick wit it.

2008-11-19 10:51:16

BOTHERD,

I DNT AGREE WITH PEOPLE ON THE DL I JUST HOPE YOU ARE USING PROTECTION. WHATS THE HARM IN TELLING SOMEONE WHAT YOU LIKE. U SHOULD TELL THE MARRIED WOMEN. LET THEM HAV THE CHOICE.

2008-11-21 17:22:58

Disgusted,

Now that's just plain ole disgusting! Do you thinking that sleeping with women makes you any less gay? Dude, YOU ARE GAY! Its people like you that spread STDs because you can't be man enough to admit who you are? I have nothing against being gay but I do have a problem with DL men. If you're bi-sexual and open then by all means continue but be a man about the situation and let people know what they're sleeping with. Its only fair.

2008-11-21 22:14:35

.02,

um if you are DL, sweetie you are gay!! it cracks me up when dudes think just because they aren't flamboyant or "out of the closet," they think they are not gay. Anytime and i mean anytime you have sexual relations with a dude, you are gay. What, do you think being on the DL is not the same as being gay? You need to think again my friend. And everyone you are dealing with, i hope you are using protection because no one deserves to be caught up in your shanigans just because you dont want to be truthful with yourself. To think ownself be true or something like that. just nasty.

2008-11-25 10:44:55

ashtonmathis,

Yall dumb ass people makin people on the dl seem bad really that AIDS shit is caused when too much sperm is ur rectum and the guy is havin sex. there are some clean people on the dl also! There wouldnt be a dude on the dl if yall keep knockin them

2008-11-25 15:49:18

LoLo,

Well I'm a bi-sexual mother of 2 beautiful kids. I have been with their father for 7 years now and going. I am open about myself. I told my husband when I first met him. I told my mother as soon as I realized that I also liked women. She was okay with it, never did she judge me or talk about me behind my back. She looked at me and told me that I was her daughter snd nothing changes that fact. My advice to you is just be honest to anyone you might meet. If they don't except you then you don't need them around you anyways. It's not something you can prevent like a cold. It just lives within you. I was never around gay or bi- sexual people. I grew up in a family home with both parents. We had alot of love and attention. My mother also taught me to love my children unconditionally, like she did. They are a part of me and gay or not they still are a part of me!

2008-11-27 15:35:04

LoLo,

Also I'm 36 years old and have never in my life had any STDS of any kind! Being careful is key.

2008-11-27 15:37:36

black woman,

accept it and love it women...u would be surprised what u like if ony you would try

2008-12-01 14:13:20

The Owner is Back,

I must say I appreciate all the feedback, mainly the ignorance... I am still DL Bi, still seeing the same 3 married women, and I still feel I dont have to tell them about who I sleep with "did they tell there husbands". As for the lady who told me to get a job I have a 5 almost 6 figure income. I dont want a steady Lady, married young, was married a long time, it is time for me... The married woman I see once or twice a week, if that, No longer with the DL Preacher, back with the married kat on the DL (his wife knows and excepts, but no one knows outside of this). When I find a lady who will except my DL style she can be mine, until then I do what I do. As a matter fact married chick will be here soon so I have to go freshin up... ;-} PS u neva know ur man may be DL, alot of dudes out there just like me....

2008-12-11 07:57:54

I say,

Just keep it honest and safe and good luck with your search. People are too judgmental and close minded. You are soooo right when you say a lot of dudes out there are just like you. Most PEOPLE out there are just like you. It's just that folks are living in denial with blinders on.

I don't see anything wrong with your entry. In fact it could be much worse.

2009-01-11 12:09:14

W M,

Damn.Loves some DL men.

2009-01-13 15:21:36

The Owner is Back "update",

I must say I am still happy with my life, just a update, I am not seeing any men currently but have upped my married woman to 5..... I am unable to find a DL Bi Man who is trying to commit to one dude sexually... I am safe and plan on staying this way, I have never had a sexually transmitted disease... So until I locate a DL Bi dude who is as safe as me I am doing w/o.... I get enough, even though it is not the same, like apples and oranges.... And until I find that 1 female who is down for a DL Bi dude I will continue to see the married woman... require little time... I tell u woman ain't shit..... Cheating on there husbands, LOL

2009-02-03 16:29:13

You have sold your soul my friend.

2009-02-17 18:44:29

The Owner is Back "update",

Life is Good!!!!

2009-02-23 19:59:13

Owner,

Any Ladies down wit me hit me up on DLBrutha412@aol.com

2009-03-28 21:09:29

Bezeled,

I'm a proud Medical/Public Heallthcare worker. The #1
indiviuals I see are Gay men " Down low" Men. w/ Hiv, STD'S & AIDS. Most of them agree that they don't pratice safe sex. It's your life your the only one
in control of the "DRIVER'S SEAT" it's up to you to buckle up, cause this time it's not the law!

2009-05-08 19:19:26

mook,

confused asshole either give or recieve dick make up your mind. your going to hell!!!!

2009-06-29 16:18:34

SOSO SAD,

I cannot believe this dude is actually asking for a female that is ok with it! You should also add that she must have some hidden agenda. YOU CAN"T BE LOOKING FOR A GOOD WOMAN! There ARE alot of women that are DL as well must that STILL DOESN"T MAKE IT RIGHT! I'd also like to add that even though the DL's are keeping things HIDDEN from PEOPLE...TRUST THAT GOD SEES YOU!!! THERE IS NO WHERE YOU CAN GO THAT GOD DOESN'T SEE YOU AND KNOWS WHAT YOU'RE DOING!!!

2009-07-09 12:02:22

Guest,

Mr. Original Poster:

Why don't you seek out a bisexual female who desires marriage and children? This way, you would not have to lie about your life, nor would you be doing something that is deceitful without her knowledge. You all would be "even" if you know what I mean.

I think that the men on the DL do get a bad wrap being blamed entirely for AIDS, when they are one of its many contributors. But for me, as a straight woman, the idea of being with a man that creeps, whether it's with men or women is not acceptable to me.

Everyone always says "wrap it up" meaning wear condoms. But too many of us forget that there are diseases like herpes and HPV/Genital Warts that are spread regardless of whether a condom is used or not, since they are skin diseases.

And from what I can tell, many DL men have oral and anal sex, as well as lick each other's butt holes, and the risk of getting diseases is increased by this type of sex. So, please for us straight women, find a bi woman.

2009-08-24 08:17:13

The Thinker,

@ So so sad,
I have sex with three different married women. They call all the time for sex. They buy lots of presents and always want to come over. I read on this board all the time the way the women complain about evrything that a man does (DL,etc.). They never talk about their lies, deceit, abortions, gold digging, whoring and so much more. I think they have sanitized all these actions in their mind and now accept them for norman behavior. I pay very little attention to what women say.

2009-09-01 02:57:18

hmmmm?,

2 wrongs don't make a right. i hope you tell the married women the truth that you are Bi and if they decide to open up their legs then they know what they are fully getting into. how in the world did you find a downlow preacher. wait. i don't want to know. we are all human. but don't think you are better than anyone else because you only doing it with other married men. sin is sin; cheating on your wife with another.

2009-09-28 07:27:02

DAT BITCH,

Listen as a woman I do not have any issues with your preferences. Do not hesitate to call me. You gotta do what u gotta do...917 6405653

2009-12-21 13:55:02

REDROCK,

I hope you realize just how totally stupid you really sound? Now you said you feel you owe them no explination because they're cheating on their husbands with you.....how twisted is that? You have a very twisted way of thinking my dude. True indeed they are wrong for cheating,but so are you. On top of you laying with other men's wives,you got the nerve to be DL. You really need some help bad,because people like you are always looking for a way to throw blame and justify your wrong. Also i want you to know my nigga,if you fuck men in the ass,you gay. people who say they're bisexual only do so to lesson the label of being called gay. Anyman who can get his dick hard off another dude is gay,plain and simple. You can fuck as many females as you like to keep lying to yourself,but dude you are gay in my book. Stop living a lie and just be honest. I was always taught that anything i must be ashamed of,i shouldn't be doing it anyway. Man Up or leave it alone !

2009-12-22 22:23:10

Conscious,

You are weak and have no self control. You are not a man. Sex controls your life. Yet another that doesn't believe in Karma. But time shall show you it is always a Bitch. Only in America is it ok to be weak. no morals, no values, no self-worth.

2010-01-06 03:59:36