It's understandable why you are so angry. He led you on and now after 5 years he decides that just being with you isn't enough. I've never been in this type of situation so I can't really tell you how to deal. But I can say this... if he is constantly lying, even after coming out, then it's probably just best to end it and not have a friendship. If you two become friends and he continually lies to you, the friendship will just be a waste of your time! And who the fuck needs a friend like that! Good luck girl!

2008-11-18 07:11:02

I did not have the gay or bisexual issue but I did have the anger and disappointment after breaking up with a long time boyfriend. 1st, you are angry and disappointed with yourself and you should be.. there is no reason at all why you were planning your life around a man who has not married you. You put all your eggs in one basket and as expected, it did not work out. But you live and learn. Don't make that mistake again. 2nd you are angry that he was not upfront with you about his feelings.. how could he be when he was lying to himself? and judging by how angry you are, he thought it would be hard for you to take.. which it is..3rd.. be glad you know the truth now. Not everyone you love will love you back the same way. he is just not the one for you period. Cry about it, heal your wounds and get out there and get someone for you, this time learn from your mistakes.

2008-11-18 09:07:24

in all those 5 years of being with this dude, you NEVER suspected he was gay/bi?????? im sure you had clues and signs all the way along. certain of it. ladies, if you choose to play dumb, and ignore the obvious, yes you can be mad at being lied to, but be mad at yourself too. shyt, YOU lied to you as well!!!!!

2008-11-18 09:52:18

You have every right to be angry and upset. I would leave his ass along for good and never speak to him again in life. Don't feel obligated to support his lying ass and don't feel obligated to be his friend. Stay strong, time heals all pain. You deserve so much better.

2008-11-18 13:58:12

Yes, do as Rihanna does in her video-Take A Bow; she sits and wait for his ass to come home, that is, if he's not moved out, already.

Only you're playing Rihanna's-Take A Bow:

You look soo dumb rite now....lol!........



Ohh, and theee award for the best liar goes to yooouuu....

For making meeeeeee, beliiiieeeeeeve, that yooouuu, could be, faithful, to me let's hear your speech ooouuuut

How about a round of applause(umh-uh-hum),
A standin' ovation

But you put on quite a shoooooow
Really had me gooooooin'
Now it's time to goooooooo
Curtain's finally cloooooosin'
That was quite a shoooooow
Very entertainin'
But it's over now (but it's over now)
Go on and take a bow

But it's over now...




Only, you have a gun in your hands waiting on his ass...lol!

iQon!

2008-11-18 17:40:28

nuff said.

2008-11-19 00:23:00