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does he really love her?

im 22 okay so tell me if yall think he is still with his other baby mama and does he love her? i been with dude since i was 16 we have two kids together and i lost my virginity to him!Well he aint been the best but i love him and he has cheated on me in the past but i took him back. he got another girl pregnant while i was pregnant with our 2yr old son. he told me when i first met her they was just cool and she had the weed and everybody just kicked over her house.well i believed him at first but then i just started wondering he never spent time with me and our daughter he barely called unless he was asking about the baby and always blocked tha number. well one day he forgot to block the number and i had a house phone and tha phone in his name! He claim she asked him 2! then i find out he moved in well other people stayed there 2 so i was givin him the benefit of doubt then he started driving her car and chillin with just her! i started thinkin(i think i look better but im skinny) she pretty(but she got a gap i hate he love it)she dress real cute, she got her own car, crib, 2 jobs, and she 4 years older than him, and real thick. so i decided right before our son was born to move to these income apts so i can have my man well he moved with me everything was okay but he stayed out the block all night he took care of bills and bought the kids stuff and me but he wasnt at home often one day i get his phone her number was all through it i go off he tell me she pregnant but i dont know if the baby mine so im like wtf i call her she say yeah we talk cause im pregnant wit his baby come to find out the baby was his(he never told her it wasnt his)i move back home he saying we still 2gether but i dont ever see him he always want me to drop the kids off at her crib i asked do they still live 2gether he never answers i asked him did he love her he wont answer oh and the bad part she super sweet and a cool person

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guest,

you are a dumb a** girl if you think that his is still with you. He is with her. But its not her fault. Your problem is with him. You need to get on with your life because im sure that you deserve better for yourself and your kids. but its good that he wants to see his kids so that means that he is a good father. it sounds like a highschool and you need to let go. you see he has.

2008-07-07 20:10:50

?????,

You are dumb as fuck!!! you should've known when he pulled that bullish talking about "everybody be chillen over there".....BULLISH

2008-07-07 21:17:22

Blissful,

As hard as it is sweetie it's time to move on. Yes you love him, but he's moved on to someone else. Now it's time to get your mind right and focus on the next chapter in you and your kids' lives.

2008-07-08 07:32:17

moe,

I agree with "Blissful" i know its going to be hard because you have been with him for so long but keep in mind a man is always and forever going to be a man. Dont put yourself out there anymore then you already have. Let him go and let God do the rest. And always pray about it, because sometimes as Keisha Cole says-You cant help who you love. And thats real talk.

2008-07-08 08:18:18

Ms.Lola,

He has moved on and so should you. I do not agree with the other posts calling you dumb. You are 22 with 2 kids. You are young and you can't help who you love, but do not be a fool, There are other men who will love you and your kids so let him go because he will do to her the same thing he did to you. Stay Strong

2008-07-08 13:19:00

WHOA,

LET IT GO IT WILL BE HARD BUT ITS BEST

2008-07-08 14:11:12

QUITESTORM,

Hey Missus, It's time for you to move on. It is going to be difficult but you can do it. Think of how much better you will be as a person and a mother when you have finally gotten over him and are thinking much clearer.IT IS TIME TO LOVE YOURSELF!
Do not waste your time listening to people that are calling you dumb. It is just one of those situations that we go through.

GOOD LUCK!

2008-07-09 04:25:54

CJ,

I have been in love with a man for almost eight years. We are married and we have two children. I have always done my thing, because I have major trust issues. He reciently cheated on me and it rocked me to the core. Not because he did it, but because of the way he did it. He put her before me. He took care of her in a way the he did not take care of me. I am not talking about money, because I always get that. I am talking about the way he was there for her. Even though I did what I did I never let anyone disrespect him. He was always my number one. He did not see me the same way, so we are over. It is hard. I cry a night when it is quiet and I am alone.

2008-07-09 09:22:47

CJ,

I want so bad to call him because I know he will come, but he wonâ€™t love me the way that I need to be loved, so I have to let it go. You need to do the same. You children will form relationships it the future based on the relationships that they saw growing up. Save you children from that pain and from them inflicting that pain on others. I know that you can do it. You just need to know it too.

2008-07-09 09:23:59

Girl U Need 2 Worry About U and Ur Babies I know it's hard but trust me when I say it gets alot easier and better later 2 many Niggas out here

2008-07-09 13:35:52

CarryingTooMuchAssAround,

Live and you Learn

2008-07-26 06:50:07

just and believe everything will be okay, been there done that, it may seem like you heart is hurting and you may feel like you can live anymore but honey just and believe a year from know you will be looking back on this as a learning experience, it happens to the best of us. Keep you head up

2008-08-28 07:50:04

read the story and tel me wut u think??

2008-08-28 11:14:29

that chic,

I feel u comin from theEXACT same situation .. 23 2 kids but I'm the one with a house 2 jobs CAR and in school... I was with my bd for 8 years he was my first and he left me for a raggedy stopper who been wit da whole world pop pills all day live in a hotel .. LOL don't feel bad boo a nigga gon b a nigga .. That's y u should move on and get a man not a Nigga!!i got a MAN NOW AND GUESS WHO WANNA COME HOME ??? Much love and remember a man wants what he can't get !!

2008-09-05 09:18:44

that chic,

I meant stripper LOL

2008-09-05 09:22:09

same boat,

u r far from dumb girl! we cant help who we love but we need to make sure that they love us back the same way and dont let them take us for granted! belive me he will try to come back and when he does u tell him u r now loving yourself because when u chose to love him he didnt appreciate the love and took it for granted but u cant just say it u need to do it also! if it was meant to be then u will see that he will return its hard to stop loving the other part of your heart.... but again if its meant then the lord will bring him back to u but when its ready for him not u 2! keep your head up and keep praying everything will be ok

2008-09-06 19:44:29

DUMB AS FUK!,

YOU ARE A STUPID DUMB HOOD RAT CHICK!

2008-09-18 13:25:00

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