I live in Atlanta and I've been dating this guy for about three years now. He refuses to make me his girlfried for no apparent reason. I have no idea why not. He doesn't date anyone else, and I know he likes me. He has told me that he will never be able to say I love you to a woman. It's just not in him. He hangs out with his 'boys' all the time. There have been many nights where he has passed up quiet nights inside with me to hang out with his boys. One night I was at his house chilling and this guy knocked on the door. At this point, I knew all of his friends yet I had never seen this guy before. Right away, he said he was going outside to talk with the guy. He didn't introduce me. I asked him why he was going outside and got defensive and straight went off on me in front of the guy. Furthermore, he's a model and really into fashion [although he doesn't act feminine] Lastly, the sex sucks. He has problems getting it up for me. Although, the dick is average size, I feel nothing when he hits up from the back because it is so weak. Help....is my man on the dl?