What Should I do

I need some advice people so help me out here? Ive been with this guy 4 2yrs now & he is a great guy dont get me wrong he was there 4 the birth of my child & everything & he's not even the father. But on the other hand i also found out he cheated on me at least once that i know of & i try 2 trust him more but everytime i do some type of shit will pop off. He does 4 me & my child when he's able he's not workin at the moment but he is in school(college) tryna better himself so he can do right by me & my son. He lied 2 me so many times bout unnecessary bullshit & bout females he claim he not fckn them only friends wit them & i just dnt believe dat 4 nothin in the world. I try leavin him all the time but he comes bck whining bout how he dont want me 2 leave him cuz he loves me 2 much 2 see me with sumone else. I also listened 2 his voicemails once & sum chick was on there tlkn bout "i love u baby call me when ur ready" & dis dude had da audacity 2 tell me its not wat it seems.WTF. Its more stuff 2 it but im just gon wrap it up. Please help me with sum advice I DNT NEED ANYTHING NEGATIVE TOWARDS ME ANYWAY.

Comments

KING PEN,

Do what ur heart tell u! The heart never liez!

2009-01-07 23:12:55

MzKeepItReal,

I agree with KP.. follow your heart.. I can understand where you are coming from tho.. Its harder than it seems to walk away isn't it? yeah i know.. Just pray and work up the strength to leave because you don't need that type of negativity around your son.. He will get old enough to understand what's going on and will think that its okay to treat women like that.. End it now.. Think about your son..

2009-01-07 23:22:09

GIRL6,

girl i went thru the samething wit my sons father. and I got the hell out of dodge. even tho I loved him obviously the feeling wasn't mutual like I thought. it wasn't worth my happiness. think about u and ur son. is that what u all need in ur life.

2009-01-07 23:25:29

Guest,

It sounds like it is probably best to end the relationship. He has given you more than enough reasons not to trust him. I don't think you are going to ever be truly happy with him because you can't trust him. But like KP said, do what your heart tell u.

2009-01-08 05:02:27

appleluv,

author do u like std's don't u want u kid to me motherless. Think of all of does things and u will get ur answer. Y American's women can't be strong and independent stupes.

Love my Country Trinidad and Tobago

2009-01-08 08:00:23

shut the fuck up apple!,

shut the fuck up apple wusnt u in your own story worry about that dude that left u and your twins? and how u was sooo in love with him? yea so shut fuck up dumb ass bitch u was in the same boat ass her now u trying to to talk shit where your AMERICAN kids at apple? how is it that you have all this time to focus on these popele on here talking your trash and shit but whos taking care of the twins i bet your dumb ass let thm run around tearing shit up while you on here tryin to clown sombody and America why dont u focus on your kids ole simple ass hoe

2009-01-08 08:24:23

know he cheating on you. It's so tough for women to leave a man they love but damn, I just dont understand why people cant be stronger and leave a relationship if you know its no good for you.

I've been in the same situation and it hurts when you leave but you'll get over it. I mean why do you want to put up with that. you dont owe him anything just cause he was there for you when you had ur baby. Not everyone is meant to stay or be in your life forever. Know when to let a person go.

2009-01-08 08:34:18

courious,

Once you start loving you first and thinking about what you want as well as reclaim your pussy power, you will know what to do.

2009-01-08 09:35:29

Guest,

I am glad somebody checked apple bitch ass. I am sick of her ignorant ass comments about americans. I left a confession on sunday. This bitch apple left a comment that we black american women are so stupid. apple if you don't have anything constructive to say, shut your damn mouth. you got your own problems. but like they say, misery loves company. you miserable bitch!

2009-01-08 09:43:59

iQon,

This is crazy, if you've caught him cheating and you do not think you are (or), deserve better than that, stay with him. You do not need advice. It does not matter if he's in school or not. If this is his character now, think about when he has graduated from school, has a good job, and is making a little money. He's a messed up individual now, so with, a little money, and a little perceived power, he's gonna be a messed up person with money.

You people does not know the meaning of love; love does not hurt, at all. If you alls so called love, hurts, that's not love, it is something, some kind of emotion but, that is not love. Love does not hurt, love feels good, all the time; each and everyday when you're in love it feels good. So, that is not love you are feeling, it is something but, that's not love. Cut your losses now.

iQon!

2009-01-08 09:48:15

The Reaper,

Love does not hurt. But I'm sure you know that by now. You need to let that fool go. You know that he is just staying with you for the moment till he gets his shit together right? And that is not his kid? Yo...he must be feeling like a fool for getting with you right about now. He is going to college and preparing himself for a better life and you are not in the big picture. You better find a way to get out of this relationship QUICK! before you find yourself, by yourself.

2009-01-08 09:56:42

Ask Mother Divine,

Child Mother says move the hell on... First his ass is not taking car of your or the child so you would be better off alone. Second, I bet your ass is helping him out with some coins and that is taking food out of your child's hands. Girl leave his ass and start doing you, stop being a fool. If you think he is cheating then why the hell are you still with him. Run child run before your ass get something you can't give back. HIV AND AIDS is no joke...

DING DONG DING!!!

2009-01-08 11:17:31

PhatCat,

Gurl, in so many words and way's, he's just not happy anymore really !!

So you take you and your lil one and go find your own happiness !!

He prolly loves you never doubt that, but loves isnt supposed to hurt either

2009-01-08 16:28:49