ude what you are doing is DEAD WRONG!! (LITERALLY) what is one of these guys turned around and had sex with someone close to you then affected them. How would you feel? You need to take responsiblity for what you are doing before it's too late. (if it isn't already)

2008-05-19 16:30:14

this is wrong u should tell them, but its also their responsibility to protect themselves.

2008-05-19 16:30:24

Dude this is ur responsibility, I feel u are intentialy spreading HIV, u need to abstain from sex Period.... U know ur status, it is ur responsibility..... U are committing 2nd degree murder according to the law....

2008-05-19 16:30:35

that is just wrong...always remember WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND...u should not decide people life for them...

2008-05-19 16:30:44

You are correct in a since, they should use a condom if it's on the stand. But it wouldn't hurt if you insisted either. MOF you should definitely insist, it would appear that you are protecting yourself so the \"Victims\" still don't know your status. I hate that you are so bitter and angry. You really do feel bad about what you are doing I just wish that you could be honest with yourself.

2008-05-19 16:30:55

I think you are right. If these men wanna cheat and sleep around on their wives, it's their responsibility to protect themselves. I am a strong believer in using condoms, and I also believe in getting your spouse checked every three months if your married. Because like you see right here men will lie! These husbands have got to protect themselves and start being honest. If you wanna be a booty bandit, at least be honest with your wife and end it with her. A marriage is based on honesty, and if she REALLY loves you and RESPECTS herself she will let you go and move on. And you can do you without feeling guilty.

2008-05-19 16:31:06

DUMB ASS

2008-05-19 16:31:17

All I can say is that if one of these brother wind up positive, and he passes it on to his wife, and he can track it back to you, you will be serving jail time...just think how many lives you put at risk with this behavior. \"Be not deceived, God is not mocked;whatsoever a man sows, that he will also reap.\" Know that God is looking at this, and you will not go unrewarded.

2008-05-19 16:31:27

You are a serial killer and you need to live in solitary confinement...God be with your victims because the devil has already taken your soul. Niggas are now killing eachother with love.

2008-05-19 16:31:39

yea i do belive you should tell the men you r doin this with your poz and if they dont leave or kill ya azz then and only then is it their choice to use or not to use thats when it out of your hand......but just not tellin someone is wrong.......what i think is that you want tell because you know that ya azz f/u/c/k/i/n/g/ dayz r ova.......

2008-05-19 16:31:49

think that its ur obligation to tell them. u might give them the option but ur the only 1 who knows

2008-05-19 16:32:00

some body just find him and kill him since he want to kill people unknowingly

2008-05-19 16:32:10

You are the lowest life form on earth. Surprisingly, I still feel sorry for you. You are paying with your life, for living reckless and now you want to take it out on the rest of us. Do me a favor please and don't screw any of the women out here and I'll be good. Sincerely, Never going RAW ag

2008-05-19 16:32:20

You are the lowest life form on earth. Surprisingly, I still feel sorry for you. You are paying with your life, for living reckless and now you want to take it out on the rest of us. Do me a favor please and don't screw any of the women out here and I'll be good. Sincerely, Never going RAW ag

2008-05-19 16:32:31

The same knees you get on to give another nigga head and to take it up up the a!@ you need to ask God for forgiveness with because you are gonna be dying sometime real soon and you shouldn't be trying to take nobody else with you- you should be try to enjoy the last years of your life in the right way. But it all good if you keep on the devil will be fuc!@#$ you soon!! Sincerely Real Talk

2008-05-19 16:32:42

Don't you know by not telling them andIf they catchit by law tt is murder and peope have gne to jail for that?

2008-05-19 16:32:52

Let me re type this again I see I made some typo's don't you know by not telling them and if they catch it. By Law That is Murder and people have gone to jail for that?

2008-05-19 16:33:03

you are a disgusting sack of crap.

2008-05-19 16:33:26

TH4T NOT RiiGHT iiTS WOM3N LiiK3 YOU TH4T M4K3 iiT H4RD FOR US....R34LLY YOU N33D TO B3 D34D CUZ iiF ii W4S 4NY ON3 OF TH3M NiiGG4 ii WOULD OF FOUND YOUR 4SS...4ND YOU NOT SOPPUS3 TO B3 H4ViiNG S3X 4NYW4YZ YOU N33D TO T4K3 YOUR M3DS...iiNST34D OF WORRYiN BOUT SOM3 DiiCK...D4MN ii C4N GO iiN ON YOU.LOL

2008-05-19 16:33:37

you are going around killing people you are a serial killer know that and let it simmer in your head and you will pay for every wrong person you have wronged you might leave this world sooner because of your actions

2008-05-19 16:33:48

Yes it is the other person's RESPONSIBILITY 2 protect themselves, but it's also urs as an HIV + person 2 let that person know....cuz u r putting their families lives @ risk along w/ their own w/ ur RISKY behavior! U should be ashamed...SMH

2008-05-19 19:01:45

If he told you would you have sex with him?

2008-05-20 05:44:29

Bump all the foolishness here is the law for the state of GA concerning what you're doing. Any person who knows that he or she is HIV infected is guilty of a felony if he or she, without disclosing his or her HIV status, (1) has sexual intercourse, including oral sex, with another person (2) knowingly shares a hypodermic needle or syringe with another person, (3) offers or consents to perform an act of sexual intercourse for money, (4) solicits another to perform or submit to an act of sodomy for money, or (5) donates blood or body tissue. What those married men are doing isn't right, but neither are you. Give them the choice that you weren't given. It is sad that you feel justified in your actions when you could be potentially spreading death and disease. Not to mention you need to be more careful yourself. If those men your messing with are already infected with a resistant strain of the virus then you can catch that ish too! If that's the case your current meds won't do jack to surpress your viral load! Life is too precious................................... HIV Case worker...

2008-05-20 12:15:57

That's what stupidity does to our people, that's why its up to everyone to protect themselves.

2008-05-20 12:17:53

U R SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WRONG!!! TELL THEM U R POZ!!!!!!!

2008-05-20 13:57:09

U r selfish, inconsiderate, self-centered, egotistical, narrow minded, parsimonious, greedy, narcissistic, self-interested, predatory, swinish, pompous, self-absorbed, tactless, reckless, thoughtless, and wicked. Who gives u the right 2 decide that some1 lives or dies? U might not care about these men that r being irresponsible & idiotic, but, y r u giving their wives & children death sentences & 4 wat? Wat a miserable person u must b, no type of respect 4 urself or any1 else. Wat if 1 of those many that u've infected gets a hold of ur mom, aunt, sister, niece, & God forbid u have children now or ever aspire 2 have them later on down the line!! U r a horrible person & i sure pray i'm not anywhere close 2 ur trifiling ass on judgement day!!!

2008-05-20 13:57:09

serious.its an offense and its taken seriously You have papers that say you tested poz and you didnt tell anybody.thats wrong

2008-05-20 13:57:09

Look I understand everyones concerns but I do agree that the married people that he us having random sex with should atleast protect them selves so that they will not give it to their mate. Yes, dude is wrong but what they are doing should also be a crime. This should also be a warning to women every where, if you think your man is cheating he is becarful and make him use protection and my God get tested.

2008-05-20 13:57:09

That is very irresponsible...and against the law! You are leagally bound to tell the people you sleep with that you are positve! You being a human, I'm sure you didn't want it to happen to you so why would you contiously do it to others! that is the leading cause of death in the black community b/c people hide the fact that they are positve or don't know! please stop for the sake of the innocent lives that may be affected...children, men and women alike! I don't know you but I will pray for you! The blame cannot be completlely placed on you, but it is your responsibilty to tell them and let them make the decision to be with you or not!!

2008-05-20 13:57:09

You should at least let them decide if they want to sleep with you knowing because you've told them, your positive, don't punish people for your mistakes. You've made them so YOU live with them..Let sex go and find Jesus.

2008-05-20 13:57:09

This shyt ain't nothing new people!! DL men are everywhere! It took a beautiful person like J.L. King (a former DL brother) to write a book abot his experiences and put this underworld of lies and deceit, on blast. Read that book !! Google J.L.King he is a gay man who wrote a book about living his life on the down low for years and how it affectd his wife and kids and future relationships. Its just sad how society has made it so hard for people to be themselves. Shyt like the above confession happens when you are so afraid of living for you. If you are gay and like sex with men, be gay and don't jeopardize these beautiful women out here who want a REAL man and just want to be happy and make babies. Not get AIDS! My boyfriends cousin's husband is living his life on the DOWN LOW!! She knows, therfeore they no longer fcuk, but imagine the pain and despair she is going through. She won't admit tht she knows, but believe me he is effeminate and has more ssss's than a lil bit. And his \"roommate\" is flamboyantly gay. He knows, she knows, my boyfriend and I know. and he lives in Clayton county Georgia (the metro Atlanta area) and his name starts with a T and rhymes with NE-YO, and his last name starts with a M. He goes around fcuking up peoples linings, (certified barber and stylist) and fcuking up peoples skin cause he does tattoos on people and he has never had a day of formal training. I can't stand him!! Cause he won't keep it real and come out of the fcuking closet!! I respect those that KNOW who they are. be Proud of who the fcuk you are!!!!

2008-05-20 13:57:09

u r nasty as helur playing with desth by sleeping with marriwd men .and telling them u r hiv poz

2008-05-20 13:57:09

Two words...vice versa, how would you feel?

2008-05-20 21:35:57

I HATE GUYS LIKE U!!!! AND THE MARRIED MEN WHO SLEEP AROUND WITH MEN I JUST HOPE I WAKE UP ONE DAY ALL THEY ALL DIE!! THATS SOOOOOOOO MESSED UP,WFT MAN???? TELL UR WIFE SHE DONT DESERVE THIS!!!!!! MAN UP F*GGOT'S....

2008-05-21 11:38:02

You DL men need to read the book by Joy Marie, \"The Straight-Up Truth About The Down-Low\" to understand the pain caused to women treated like this. Go to www.straightuptruth.co

2008-05-22 14:24:03

You are so WRONG!!!! Please ask GOD for forgiveness and please stop doing what you are doing..

2008-05-22 16:16:31

You should be ashamed of yourself. Im sure if you told them u were positive they would NOT fukk you without protection or if at all! You seem to have low self esteem, and no respect for anyone else that may be infected! Someone is going to come up 'poz' and kick your ass! Bet u wont confess to that azz whoppin! Guess these married men are no better, but dont make it right for you to be having unprotected sex when you KNOWyou have HIV! The world will be a better place when you die! One less person to spread this horror around our community!

2008-05-23 02:05:55

2 wrongs doesnt make a right...they're wrong for cheatingon their spouse and so are you for passing that ish out like candy!!! but you cant go around wanting to infect people just because it happened to you its morally low and disrespectful to yourself i dony understand why you or what makes you think that right or okay??? and at the end of the day and and the married men are going to be held accountable for your actions

2008-05-23 11:06:00

THAT IS F***ED UP THAT YOU WOULDN'T LET THEM KNOW YOUR STATUS, BECAUSE EVEN THOUGH IT IS THEIR RESPONSIBILITY TO WANT TO USE PROTECTION IT'S EVEN MORE SO YOURS BECAUSE YOU KNOW THAT YOU'RE POZ AND YOU DON'T TELL THEM, THAT IS A CRIME.....SO WHAT HAPPENS WHEN ONE OF THE GUYS CATCH IT AND GIVE IT TO THEIR WIVES, NOW MORE PEOPLE ARE INVOLVED...U SHOULD EITHER STOP HAVING SEX WITH MARRIED MEN OR START USING PROTECTION....INNOCENT WOMEN ARE BEING AFFECTED BY YOU AND THE MARRIED GUYS YOU HAVE SEX WITH...YOU NEED TO STOP BEING SELFISH AND OWN YOUR SH*T...YOU'RE WRONG AND YOU KNOW IT!!!

2008-05-23 23:50:55

God is going to get you for this one. You will be burning in Hell for the rest of your life.

2008-05-25 00:57:28

you mad cuz you got that puss. just like you chose not to protect ya self, you punishing other people. you a senseless playah and you going to hell for every life thata has been lost. you nasty sissy

2008-05-25 14:03:10

I'll PRAY 4 you, cause you're gonna need it!

2008-05-28 10:53:40

Wow. All I can say as a woman we need to do our home work before we give up the cookies. Do give it away to quick make his azz wait. While you are waiting hire a private investigator to follow his azz and see what he is up to.

2008-06-03 03:38:30

utter ignorance

2008-06-03 03:51:13

Karma is a b*tch. And just because you have HIV doesnt mean nothing. Your judgement will come soon enough

2008-06-03 20:08:59

Hell, If you think your man is on the DL he is. RUN LIKE HELL, SAVE YOURSELF...

2008-06-04 05:14:35

I hope you go to jail, like others have for purposely spreading HIV

2008-06-04 05:14:35

DAMN this is just so wrong man. Think about the people you are hurting.

2008-06-07 02:32:02

What about those married mens wives? They are innocent. Why not try to find a man to love you and your illness instead of infecting all of ATL?

2008-06-08 11:04:46

you will be arrested for murder

2008-06-08 11:04:46

Here is a warning to everyone don't trust no one. If they will stick their d*ck in you raw they will stick it in someone else raw. Take control of your own life and you don't have to worry. Get to know people before you let them stick their d*ck in you with or without a condom. Talk to the old girl friends and see if they cheated on them or ever gave them STD's. Then take him to the Health department and you both get test before any sex.

2008-06-08 11:04:46

I'm not going to be mean and yell at you and say you're going to hell (there probably is no hell by the way) but i just want to say that this is not good. I know that you're probably hurt because you got aids but you should think about how other people feel...

2008-06-08 11:04:46

You stupid F*CK! Whats wrong with you? Exactly why I'm a lesbian. You retarded men have no standards or morals. Rot in hell you may.

2008-06-09 11:23:28

please, please. please! re-think about what ur doing. That's all I ask. Peace & Love

2008-06-13 16:11:17

Damn man this is wrong...

2008-06-13 16:11:27

this kat is lyin'. another gay man's cry for attn. next.

2008-06-14 11:52:57

ok,,i get it when your dying that slow long painful death and wasting away you dont want to go it alone....hmmmm, i hope you got your life insurance together..

2008-06-14 14:21:28

you are sooooo nasty. omg its hella gross. you need help homeboy. ugh, SICK F*CK

2008-06-14 23:16:17

I feel as if everyone is responsible for their own actions. I do not believe it is right to not inform someone befor having unprotected sex, but I do believe everyone has to make their own decisions

2008-06-15 13:14:56

u ain't right cuz u poz now u mad shoulda protected ya self u still should u don't care well ur life that remains will always be miserable nothing good will come of it not loving u or loving life GOD BLESS

2008-07-03 11:45:16

i don't blame you. i'm a female and i say it serves these fools right to catch the bug! your sin is no worse in the eyes of the Lord than their adultery. so be it.

2008-07-04 00:19:01

I think that "oh well" and you are looking at this the wrong way. GOD has a way to make people see the light. Maybe one day the next man you sleep with could be with a female in your life circle or maybe "oh well" could be involved with that man as well. No one gets away with anything wrong that they do. No one.

2008-07-04 19:20:17

While your out there giving single woman and children HIV you need to make sure that the guys your fucking don't have HIV either. Even though you have HIV already ,you can fuck someone with it that has a very deadly strain then you will get it. shit can get even worse . it will fire back on you things will be worse for you stupid....

2008-07-07 00:40:36

SO U GOIN AROUND KILLING PEOPLE AN TRYN TO JUSTIFY IT? CUZ I KNO U NOT TELLN EM CUZ THEY WOULDN'T WANNA FUCK RAW OR WIT A RUBBER IF THEY KNEW. MAN WTF IZ WRONG WIT U DL HOMOS? Y'ALL FUCKN MURDERERS KILLIN WIVES TOO AS WELL AS THE HUSBANDS. YOU SICK!

2008-07-10 02:09:29

U could go to prison for that!!! u are endanger the lifes of others so if these men find out kiss your sorry ass life good bye!!! Prison u might like but if i was one of their wifes i would beat my husband to near death and get attemped murder for that and murder for yo dirty ass and take my chance with God....U on the other hand im sure would all could agree your on your way to HELL SO BURN BASTARD BURN!!!!!

2008-07-11 12:54:18

So, wrong on so many levels.You might put that stuff on the table. But, you still have not told them you are Posv.So, you really didn't give them a choices.Not only are you giving then HIV. there wifes too..SELFISH!!!!!Hater!!!!Bitchassness....

2008-07-12 22:43:25

THANKS FOR TELLING EVERYONE THAT.NOW I KNOW ITS A STUPID MOTHA FUCKA IN ATLANTA SPREADIN AIDS.IMA ADVISE EVERYONE TO LEAVE ATLANTA NIGGAS ALONE.

2008-07-12 23:06:20

Just think how you'd have to answer to God for your actions. b/c u are not judged for your past : However, when u first found out that u were H.I.V poz. ur main objective is to make aminds , be truthful
so u can have a clean conscience with self and God.
Proverbs 3;4

2008-07-14 19:18:03

This is why this is a major disease in our nation and why people are dieing and sh*t..I cant believe some people can be so idiotic and so immature about how this can ruin that persons life and many others..you should be ashamed of your self you sonofab*tch!!!!

2008-07-15 00:41:26

thats bullshit..cuz u infectin otha ppl cuz u a horny fuck..how is it their fault that u got HIV??..

2008-07-24 09:49:31

i hope your lying becuz think about all of the lyfes you infecting? AND WHAT DO YOU MEAN THEIR NOT RESPONSIBLE YOUR NOT RESPONSIBLE IDOIT!

2008-08-26 13:13:33

YOU SORRY SOME OF A BITCH! I HOPE YOU BURN IN HELL FOR ETERNITY.... OR SOMEONE WILL FIND OUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND PUT YOU IN AN EARLY GRAVE!!!!!!!!

2008-08-26 14:52:51

U Bitter Ass Fag.. U mad because u didn't have enough sence 2 wrap it up.... Hope u rot n hell... I hope maggots eat away at ur gross as flesh while u enjoy the last days u have on earth.. U sick ass bastard.. Get a fuckin hobby....

2008-08-27 22:45:08

Everyone has there day just pray that one of those men don't kill u well it doesnt matter your killing them and there familys

2008-09-01 12:18:54

This is why as a married woman, I continue to use condoms with my husband. These dayz you can never be 2 sure what people are into. I just refuse to be that person who trusted another human being with MY LIFE......That's my job!!!!

2008-09-02 13:57:08

RE: TH4T NOT RiiGHT iiTS WOM3N LiiK3 YOU TH4T M4K3 iiT H4RD FOR US....R34LLY YOU N33D TO B3 D34D CUZ iiF ii W4S 4NY ON3 OF TH3M NiiGG4 ii WOULD OF FOUND YOUR 4SS...4ND YOU NOT SOPPUS3 TO B3 H4ViiNG S3X 4NYW4YZ YOU N33D TO T4K3 YOUR M3DS...iiNST34D OF WORRYiN BOUT SOM3 DiiCK...D4MN ii C4N GO iiN ON YOU.LOL

THAT'S A MAN

2008-09-03 00:09:26

Is this maniac serious?Please say it ain't so because he needs to be hung up by his balls while he gives the names of each person he has slept with, then get a needle to drain his balls of all of its fluids!!!

2008-09-10 10:01:23

just one thing to say - if you dont care about these men or their wives...think about the children. you may be the reason a child/or children are orphaned to this disease! that child has no fault in this whatsoever! he/she is not a man cheating on his wife, not a wife ignoring signs her man is gay, but just an innocent victim of your anger, bitterness and irresponsibility. think about it bruh. whether you are real or fake, someone out there may be doing this for real, and if you even have a conscience, just think about it

2008-09-11 14:08:44

I UNDERSTAND THAT YOU MAY HAVE GOTTEN IT FROM SOMEONE WHO DID NOT TELL YOU THEY HAD IT BUT IT IS YOUR MORAL RESPONSIBLITY TO PROTECT EVERYONE YOU COME INTO CONTACT WITH. YOU SHOULD INSIST THAT YOUR PARTNER USES A CONDOM AND IF THEY REFUSE THEN YOU REFUSE. NOT ONLY ARE YOU SPREADING THE DISEASE TO UNSUSPECTING PEOPLE YOU ARE PUTTING YOURSELF AT RISK FOR OTHER DISEASE THAT CAN COMPLICATE YOUR OWN HEALTH. PLEASE STAY SAFE AND THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE DOING.

2008-09-13 20:10:49

Cause that's trifling...

2008-10-17 00:59:40

You's a hoe, slut, tramp, trick, queer ass "As i Die Slowly" nasty ass dick-in-the-bootee ass miserable punk ass faggot and you going to HELL with Gasoline drawers.

2008-10-23 09:36:47

you are the scum of the earth- you can answer to god- you are a dirty lowlife- don't you have a conscience- you should make them wear a condom- you lowlife faggot! see, that's why i can't stand shitty ass fags, freaks of nature- disease spreading abomination!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2008-10-28 02:53:26

YOU FUKIN IDIOT!!!! YOU SHOULD TELL HIM...YOU RATHER A NUT THEN THE WELLBEING OF HIS FAMILY...HE IS WORRIED ABOUT THE NUTT TOO YES..LIKE WE ALL ARE AS MEN!!! BUT WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU NOT BE UPFRONT...HE IS ASSUMING YOU ARE NEGATIVE SINCE THE DISCUSSION HAS NOT BEEN HAD!!!

2008-10-29 18:43:24

omg i hope they find your nasty as and kill u!

2008-10-30 11:49:21

You of all people know what it's like to suffer and you are bring innocent people into your part of the infidelity. You are dishing out a death sentence to people whho are being wronged by the actions of you and your affair partners in the first place.
At least be honest and let someone decide if they want to sleep with you KNOWING that you have a disease.

I dont know why you want advice or why you want to "confess" when you know what you are doing is unforgiveable on every human level.

I hope you wake up, and if you refuse to I hope you burn in hell.

2008-10-31 19:23:09

OMG!!! you are resposible for telling people people your positive thats is wrong and you know or ur lame dead ass wouldnt be on here tellin it u want somebody to catch u and fuck u up hell i hope whoever do fuck u up where a haz mat uniform cause u dead wrong and u will get urs with ur nasty damn ass

2008-11-02 00:54:29

Why would you want to be responsible for someone else's death? I don't see how you can live with yourself. That's the most selfish thing that I have ever heard. Obviously you know it's wrong since this is a secret confession and you don't bother telling them. This reaches beyond the men you are sleeping with. What about their wifes, more importantly, what about their children? The black community is falling hard and fast. You're not helping us at all.

2008-11-02 01:49:13

Come on man u kno u have da disease plz protect yaself and stop spreading this disease we need to try and cut down on the aids epidemic...........if u kno betta plz do betta!!

2008-11-04 06:02:30

well dss still messed up doe..wat if some1 didnt tell yuh they hadd aids n yuh decide 2 have sex wiff em n got da bugg...you wuddnt be to thrilled in their explaination that yuh juss gave....

2008-11-04 17:51:14

PLAIN AND SIMPLE THAT'S FUCKED UP....U KNOW THEY SAY MISERY NEEDS CO....LAMEAZZ

2008-11-06 05:29:47

This is one of the reason why HIV/AIDS is so rampant in the Black community.

2008-11-13 06:53:54