I have married the wrong person.

I have married the wrong person. I truly love my wife - and our kids - but she don’t make her happy.

The person who I first loved - who I thought I should have been with, has turned out to be a different person entirely. I still love him for what he did for me at that time in my life. He’s married now and is very happy. I’m happy for him, but I really want him back in my life in some way. Even if it just means sex on the sideand on the table and on top. ROFL

But me…I’m lost. And it really, really, really sucks. I feel so emotionally alone.

I wish someone would tell me they love me first - and ask me how my day was - and just hug me for no reason.

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The Reaper,

We all looking for love homie. but you fooling yourself if you think feeling sorry for yourself and obsessing over this person is going to help to cure your lust for another mans balls and ass. you need to get yourself together.
you need to learn how to love yourself first, then love your wife and kids and stop that sissy shit.

2009-10-08 07:45:56

YOUR WIFE,

DOESN'T HUG YOU FOR NO REASON? OR ASK ABOUT UR DAY? THATS WHY SO MANY MEN ARE UNHAPPY IN THEIR MARRIAGE, ITS THE LITTLE SHIT THAT KEEPS THEM ENTERTAINED. CAUSE AFTER AWHILE SEX IS BORING UNLESS YOU ARE SPONTANEOUS DON'T JUST SAY HI HONEY HOW WAS UR DAY THEN GO TO THE NEXT ROOM. YOU HAVE TO STAY AND LISTEN AND REALLY LISTEN, ASK FOLLOW UP QUESTIONS..DAMN I KNOW I'M A GOOD WIFE BUT GEESH...NOW YOUR LUSTING FOR A MAN.

2009-10-08 08:22:19

The Real Deal,

The both of u need to see a marriage counselor and read the Word on your respective roles as a man and a woman.
Think 3 times about chasin a man. A "married" one @ that. You WILL be playin 2nd fiddle and will feel worse than you do with your wife. Sometimes you got to TEACH the ones closest to you how to love you.
Get the book "The 5 Languages of Love" A very good read for anybody to understand what REALLY makes them tick and get the significant other to DELIVER.

Love is NOT innate. We LEARN to love. And some never get it in a whole lifetime.

2009-10-08 12:22:08

C Dog,

I am so sick of you damn sissys! If you are gay you should have never married her in the first damn place..I hope she divorce your ass! I have more respect for a gay man than one on the DL..I will say it again..."LEAVE OUR WOMEN ALONE"!!! You are married with kids and thinking about a dude! Sickening!!

2009-10-08 13:44:47

THANK YOU C Dog,

FINALLY a man with some sense on this site who wont condone the DL lifestyle!

2009-10-09 08:52:12

Ask Mother Divine,

Child you sure have!!! Let the women go and let that man go. If he is happy with his wife then leave him alone. If you are not happy with your wife move on and find you a man that can love you for you. Your wife deserve better.

DING DONG DING!!!

2009-10-09 09:52:53

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