how do we put it back together

Ive been with my partner for 6 years we have had a good life together im not in the closet she is she knows everybody i know she goes with out with her friends and never invites me i ask her to invite them to our place so i can meet them she says they are not friends like that to be coming to our home but she visits them often, i have told her over and over again that its seems as if she has a secret life she calls me crazy .All this has caused us to end our relationship but we still live together im still in love with her but she continues to do the hurtful things that i have asked her not to do i know love is not supposed to hurt but how do i get over and pass this?

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Just my 2 cents,,

Move out and move on. Life is too short to be living it in a closet.

2009-03-25 18:54:06

Accepting the truth,

You don't and you can't. If it was going to work, your partner would not have done what she did in the first place. Accept the truth for your sanity, your heart and move on. You and she need to part ways...living together on makes it more difficult to start a new life. You deserve to be happy. Love in the mirror and start first loving yourself. Another person cannot complete us. To believe that is a setup for failure.

2009-03-25 20:58:02

Brown,

Hey Author... Being in the life myself, I encourage you to understand that she's in a limited closet, you know, the need to know.

I would release the pain, and move on obviously she has.

2009-03-25 22:57:36

It hurts,

Well I'm 36 now, and i had a relationship with a female for the first time 10 yrs ago. I didn't know it at the time but i'm bi...it is still a different feeling to say that word referring to myself. Being that i'm married and have two kids. I was actually married at the time of our relationship. But she was the type where she aimed to please. And it was her first relationship and her coming out. She was 20, at the time and totally gay. But the point is that she did everythings in her power to please me...i had her mind body and soul. I loved her, but not enough to give up my life. I now see how it must of felt for her, she was happy when we were together spending time, but unhappy when she wasn't w/me. She was consumed w/me. And now looking back i knew that and toke advantage. Sometimes we don't realize how are actions are affecting the ones we claim to love. The best thing is to seperate and find someone who can reciprocate the unconditional love you give. Good luck ba

2009-03-26 08:39:29

COOLCOLADA,

WOWZER! BORING LOVESTORY EVER GO TAYLOR SWIFT YA SELF LMAO

2009-03-26 09:54:22

booty doo,

Leave dat hoe she aint no gooood!

2009-03-26 21:00:12

faithful in sc,

I'm sure there is more to the story it sounds really one sided and all of you that don't know the FULL story can KICK ROCKS!

2009-04-04 20:36:27

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