I dont fit in with this generation...

 I dont fit in with this generation. I have officially come to that conclusion and I dont know what to do. I dont think I will ever find love, or happiness. I was raised to respect myself. I could never, ever have sex with a man who does not love me, trust me, respect me and offer me committment. However, I feel as though I am trapped in a world where women like me are obsolete. I go in clubs and I see the way women are dressed (barely) and the way they dance. (dry humping and booty popping on the dance floor) and I feel out of place and confused. When I meet someone new, after a few phone conversations they expect sex and when they dont get it they act like im crazy. Its almost as if I get LESS respect and admiration from men for not accepting whatever they chose to give me. Which hurts me because my brothers and father told me it would be different. But it isnt. Times have changed drastically and women like me are the ones who get disrespect, ignored and called names like "stuck up" for "playing games" when all I demand is respect. It hurts me so bad cause I lay alone at night hoping I can meet someone who's patient and caring and will respect my wishes. (like my father told me men would...but they dont) Im so tired of meeting someone and talking to them a few times and starting to like them, then getting cut off because I wont put out before they say "I love you"..."I want to be with you" I just dont get it. What ever happened to women like me and the men my father told me would respect me more for NOT being "easy"? I feel like im going to be alone forever. Sometimes I question my ways. Should I just give up? Im soooo tired of being alone. My friends they have one night stands and meet guys and sleep with them within days of knowing them and then have relationships. Me...I cant bring my body to doing that, even when I really wanted to and im all alone. Any advice? Is there anyone like me who feels they just dont fit into todays society?