i have herpes

okay i think i might have herpes i was raped at da age 2 and 15yrs old and molested all in between i think at 15 i got it i got tested n it was negative but im still not sure i been wit my man fo 2 yrs n have cheated recently i told him n broke up wit him but he took me bak begging me he was gone to change i asked him if i told u i had herpes would u stay wit me he said yes he would jus have it to then n we would get treated together n i left it at dat i neva told anyone should i tell him or jus leave it alone i feel so guilty eryday

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You have to tell him, man. He has already told you he would stay together with you even if you have it. Tell him.

2008-08-30 18:48:06

Jigga,

Tell him, if he really loves you he will stay with you.

2008-08-30 18:55:29

Telll him and I am sorry that has happened to you...

2008-08-31 08:48:52

lilmsthcky,

easier said then done i feel like dat was my moment to say it n now it passed how do i come out wit it

2008-08-31 09:37:09

yo...i got herpes from cheating....nuff said

2008-09-01 22:22:02

CECRETS,

I think u should tell him even if u feel the moment has passed to come clean do it anyway. U should go 2 the doctor and get tested. Find out the results and then take it from there. As far as getting treated together it sounds good but u do realize theirs no cure for herpes right? Also there may be a chance u have it and he doesn't. Hope everything works out well for you.

2008-09-10 16:42:19

I agree that u should go get tested first and then go from there. U should not continue to put people at risk if u believe that u may have herpes, that is some serious shit. Do the right thing and get tested, maybe u don't have it and then the issue with telling this man will go away.

2008-09-11 15:32:50

Someone elses life is in danger. If not for you, for him

2008-09-14 17:20:10

author,

im good i went to da doctor glad i waited to say sumthin

2008-09-15 16:40:58

Oh! thank goodness!
But um sweetie, maybe you may want to seek counseling the molestation. It can be a issue in your life in more ways than one.

2008-09-19 11:36:32

iQon,

W.oooooo.w! Just, w.ooooooo.w!

This stuff is unbelievable.

iQon!

2008-11-10 17:46:22

I agree,

I think you should go to counseling and after that find the MFer who put his hands on you at such a young age and kill them! Or cut them, believe me I don't think you would go to jail, I've watched enough SVU to know that. Good Luck baby girl!

2009-01-04 07:50:20

zoe,

Go the the doctor first, know your facts before you tell him anything. If you do have it, you have to tell him and make sure you protect him.

2009-05-04 08:22:15

I thought so too,

Yooo, i dont know if something happened to me or not when i was little, but i get boils.( i remember seeing a male private part in front of me and i cant watch or hear rapes on tv or nothin) Matta fact the boils started when i was bout 13. (period at 12) I always a had sensitive skin(im blk, but lightskinned) but i thought they were hepres. I went and got tested and i dont and i do have something like folliculitis. when i shave or if a hair comes out of my private part, i get a boil. Oh and by the way i get boils under my arms too so thats why i thought nah it cant be that. get checked, tell him and look up FOLLICULITIS. It will be hard to go through this but at least you have him by your side. oh btw i just lost my v-card last year at 20 to my child's father, so herpes woulda damn near been impossible cuz i aint give head either.

2009-12-22 18:20:53

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