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should i leave him alone?

I first met this man when I was 8 months pregnant.  He and I hit it off right off the bat.  Until his phone started ringing off of the hook. Of course, I asked him who it was, he said it was his wife.  I was like wtf.  She kept calling back to back to back, to the point where I finally told him to answer it.  He stepped outside to answer the phone and when he came back he had the weirdest look on his face.  He said his wife was in the car with her ex-boyfriend and someone walked up and shot the ex-boyfriend in the chest.  I'm looking at him like what the hell you got going on?  Apparently, his wife, I heard was a straight up whore.  She loved young men and would screw them at the drop of a hat.  Anyways, he and I have been talking for 5 months now, because my son is now 4 months old.  I finally gave him some, a month ago, but I made him get tested first. The messed up part is that when he and I were screwing a couple of weeks ago I just had a weird feeling.  I asked him if he had had sex with his wife lately.  He told me yes, because we had this whole honesty thing going on.  I was so turned off that my stomach started to hurt.  His wife is nasty.  She don't use condoms with these young men.  And with him being so damned gullible and needy, I just knew he screwed her without a condom.  It's his wife.  I made him leave my house and haven't let him come back over since that night.  We've talked over the phone a lot, but whenever he try to come over I change the subject.  I have a son to think about and I'm not trying to catch a fatal disease.  Now mind you, this man has paid my bills, spent quality time with my son and me, and tends to my every need.  He just falls weak to that trifling ass wife of his.  So you tell me...  Should I leave him alone?

 
 
Comments
Miss Lady,
It shouldnt even be a question as to weather u need leave him alone. Why would you not cut that shit off when u found out he had a wife. Regardless of what the fuck she got going on wit herself you as a woman and a mother should have said im not about to be fuckin wit a married man period so yea leave his ass alone. And how do you even know his wife doesnt use condoms with these men?? Somethin sounds a little off with your story
2010-07-28 11:24:57
Guest,
You had no business getting involved with a married man. Once you found out he had a wife, you should have called it quits immediately. That is his wife, he don't have to use a condom with his wife. You are the side ho (aka jumpoff) therefore you are the one he needs to use a condom with. Don't get it twisted, he is cheating on his wife, not you. How do you know for a fact that his wife is a ho? He could just be telling you that lie to justify his affair with you. If his wife was really out there like that, I don't think he would be having sex with her. I can tell you really like this guy but it's best if you leave him alone. Go find someone that is single like yourself, someone you can have a real future with.
You on here asking us should you leave him alone. Whatever girl, you are going to let him back in your life. I give you a week before you are back to fuckin him again without a condom even though you know he is fuckin his wife too. Pot calling the kettle black!
2010-07-28 15:28:19
Question,
How are you calling his wife a ho and you were the one 8 months pregnant by a man and dating another? You don't know her, all you know is what he tells you. Maybe you need to be concerned about being a woman and paying your own bills and supporting your own child.
2010-07-28 16:32:39
darisha,
YES!! Put your health first Plus you have a child to be worried about also and not some trifling man!!!
2010-07-28 17:12:31
@ author,,
Where is your Baby Daddy? It sounds as if you're a prostitute, being with a man because he's paying your bills. It appears that you don't work, so if he leaves, how will the bills be paid for you and your baby? Just as I thought, Section 8 Hoe.
2010-07-28 21:30:31
BMOSLICE,
Just leave that cat alone, he sound like a weak man in the first place. I don't know one real dude that is going to take that from anywoman for any period of time. I don't think he playing you, but he is weak as hell, that means he ain't gonna be there to back you up whrn you really need it, shawty. on top of that what is up with the son's father, I feel a child support case coming if you a real woman? you got to be weak too to be meesing withol' boy in the first place. cut him loose and work it out on your lonesome. I know it hard but they're females out there doing it everyday. What going on with some of brains of these females nowadays, SMH?
2010-07-29 04:48:52
The Real Deal,
Sad that this is even a question, but todays reality.
Do you see the general consensus? Dude is MARRIED. You stand NOTHING to gain from him but bills paid. Now if you can get that done without givn up the kitty , u a tru playa. If not, get in yo lane and find someone single.


And what kind of man keeps fukn with a wife that's a known hoe? Damn ,, at least u got a computer becuz this sound like a story str8 out the projects. SMDH
2010-07-29 05:51:38
B,
Involved with a married man at 8 months pregnant - why at 8 months pregnant were you even looking for a man - obviously the baby daddy didn't work out so you should have been focused on your baby from then. Sadly you STILL ain't focused on your baby - your only concern seems to be getting a disease.... I don't know why you would want to burden yourself with a man who has all that baggage - he is still married he is still fucking her she is still a ho - what is good about that - what is good about him... all the shit you said he does you can do for your damn self... get a clue.
2010-07-29 07:11:56
FROM THE AUTHOR,
On some real shit, I got a job. And I know she's a whore, his brothers know she's a whore, hell her own mother knows that she's whorish. That's how I know... Anyhow, I have never been on Section 8 a day in my life, I don't need to. As for my son's father? He is very much apart of his life. Every body doesn't have to be on Section 8 to let a man pay her bills. Think about it, if I was on Section 8 would I have bills? But I have decided to leave him alone... Thanx BMOSLICE... For not stereotyping a sister like the rest of em. I was a bit weak for what he was doing for me, but realize now that I can't keep messing with a married man. Good looking out.
2010-07-29 09:19:23
Miss Lady,
@ author
Bitch your lying lol Her own mama know she a hoe?? And how would YOU even know that? You talk about the wife like shes the sideline and your the main when really YOUR the sideline. You a dumb hoe Point blank
2010-07-29 09:51:02
to miss lady,
damn bitch you sound angry as hell, your husband must have left you for his sideline ho. angry much? get it together, and for the record bitch my homegirl aint lying, bitch. her mama know she stay in the streets, cause she always got her kids. see there bitch, you doin way too much. if you dont already see, people talk and most of the time all you have to do is sit back and observe shit. you a hatin ass ole lonely bitch who probably need some dick bitch...
2010-07-29 10:16:23
FROM THE AUTHOR,
Damn bitch did I fuck your husband? I was trying to get some honest feedback, but little ole miss lady got on the defensive. I don't do this everyday, which is why I asked about it. I don't go on the prowl for married men you bitch. As angry as you're acting bitch are you deflecting? I think so.
2010-07-29 10:22:59
@ Author,
Ok your baby daddy is in your childs life, but we are addressing the fact that you were 8 mos preggo getting with a man that was NOT your baby daddy. This story shouldnt even be happening if you were focused on your pregnancy and wellbeing of your child. This is trivial compared to the responsibility of raising a child and I too think you need to pay your own bills. Do you feel THAT great depending on someone else to take care of your household bills? I personally feel better knowing I pay for my own shit - oh yeah and I dont date married men either. You shouldnt worry about what the wife is doing. You need to ask yourself WHY you got involved with him when you knew he was married. Hoe or not, she is his wife and she cant be that bad cuz he hasnt divorced her! He tells you what you want to hear and he got the pussy. His mission has been accomplished! Way to set an example for your son. Real good parenting!
2010-07-29 10:24:33
to you,
As long as I'm a great parent to my son, which I am, and his father is there for his every need, then all is well. I'm not worried about the wife, just trying to get some advice on the man. But because I dated a married man then that makes me a bad parent?!!! What the fuck are you talking about. That was the most stupid remark. Whether his mission has been completed or not, or whether he's married or not has absolutely NOTHING to do with me as a parent to my son. Even when I was dating this man my son was my life and now that I've stopped dating him my son is and will always be the CENTER of my life. I'm at work every fucking day, and with my son every fucking night. So keep him the fuck out of this and fuck you when it comes to my parenting skills.
2010-07-29 10:31:50
Miss Lady,
@ Author
Angry? Angry at what? Angry cause your story sounds fake as shit? Angry cause u just confessed to all of us that so desperate that u had to fuck a hoes husband? Do you hear your self? Bitch Get it together. Bitch yo pussy aint shit if ya baby daddy left u before u even had his child lol or was u a booty call? You got a baby and you on downlowconfessions asking strangers if you should leave a married man alone. I think the only person mad is you I dont have a husband I have a man and I promise you hes not married to a hoe lol You got yo friend(probably you) on ths website cosignin for your tacky ass bitches like you who sleep with married men cause they cant find their own crack me up
2010-07-29 11:13:03
Miss Lady,
Obviously this chick is mad because she exposed her self on a website and didnt get the responses that she wanted. LOL its unfortunate. And i guess the only defense this chick can say is "your mad" lol when really this confession just made my day. i got 3 more hours at work and this back n forth argument with a sideline hoe is definatly going to make my day go by faster.
2010-07-29 11:19:58
You Sound,,
you sound shady as shit. All of a sudden, your baby daddy is there for your son's every need. I say B/S to that. You work, baby daddy handling all needs of son and you're depending on the boyfriend to pay all the bills? You're not only on section 8, you graduated from section 8 school, you’re the Magna Cum Laude of your class. If you have all of these different sources to confirm that his wife is a hoe, how in the hell is it you didn't know that he was married? Oh yes, I can safely say, you are Miss Section 8, 2010, hands down!
2010-07-29 11:21:03
B,
Does anyone really give a shit whats gonna happen to this fucking sideline jump off wish I was as smart as Amber Rose but I'm more like a Kat Stacks skank... I mean really.....
2010-07-29 11:24:49
Miss Lady,
@ the person who called this chick Miss Section 8
I wish i would have added that to my comment. cause you right!! how the fuck this bitch got all these sources telling her his wife a hoe but no one told this bitch he was married. Streets talk right? Im glad you pointed that shit out.


@B crazy ass who in the hell is kat stacks?? I got time im going to look them up lol
2010-07-29 11:28:48
Out of curiosity,
I was wonderiong why she mentioned the fact that this mans wife was in the car wit a man who had been shot but she didnt mention the fact that her babys father was in her childs life.
2010-07-29 12:00:17
The Real Deal,
LOLOL My laugh for the day on DLC!
2010-07-29 14:20:15
I Hope,,
that this confession is a bullshit lie and there is no baby boy attached to this hoe for an upbringing. Hoe cannot even get a clear thought to tell a good and believable lie. She works, baby daddy supports the son 100% and she depending on a man that she met when she was 8 mos. preggos. What man is interested in a woman that is 8 mos. preggos with another man's child? This sounds like an average day in the life of project dwellers. @ author, please stay there and don't come out into the real world. Just a sad commentary. Should you leave him alone? no he should run as hard as he can and far as he can away from your ass. there will be no happy endings with you! Just a Bad News Babe.
2010-07-29 17:24:21
B,
Miss Lady Kat Stacks is some common street ho turn blogger who been blabbing about who she sucked and fucked ala Superhead..... apparently she done got beat down by Bow Wows goons and some other people but bitch won't shut up - she is ugly botoxed and a straight up ho. She is the epitome of stank... what is it with chicks aspiring to fuck for fame? I should have done this as a post instead of a comment....
2010-07-30 04:02:27
First Lady,
Okay, maybe he and his wife have an open relationship. If that is not what you want move on. It seems to me that you need to deal with you first. Just having a baby by a man that you failed to even mention is not a good thing. Take care of your child and yourself and move on. Buy a toy that is safe sex.
2010-07-30 04:37:01
YA'LL ARE SOME WRETCHED DUMB JUDGEMENTAL BITCHES,
no you sorry bitches, he has been there the whole time. and a man who dates an 8 month pregnant woman, is a man who saw that i was doing shit on my own and wanted to help...

you hoes are real fly at the mouth and i love it... thank you... wish i could go to one of your pages just to see how ugly you really are on the outside but you bitches have the ugliest of ugliness on the inside...

go head you bad motherfukkas show me who you are and i bet you bitches will get the fucking shock of your lives... im not an ugly woman, and i looked even better pregnant... just cause you ugly bitches gained 100 fucking pounds and looked a fucking wreck when you were pregnant doesn't mean every woman looks like that... you're a bunch of sad ass hoes who sit around and be nosy all damn day...
it wasn't me i was talking about, but im glad i don't tell my girl to see what you hoes said. YOU'RE A BUNCH OF SAD LONELY NOSEY ASS HOES... GET A FUCKING CLUE AND A LIFE... YALL AIN'T SHIT...
2010-07-30 09:58:00
Miss Lady,
Hahaha It wasnt you?? are you sure hun? because you sure did comment back to us crying about how your a good mother and you take care of your son lol was that part of the act of pretending to be your friend? get yo mad lame ass up outta here with that shit.You sound like a damn bird repeatin the same shit.. How you know any of us is fat?? I cant speak for everybody else but my ass is no where near fat. I knew it was your tacky ass following me around mad n shit so u felt the need to go to every post talkin shit bitch grow the fuck up. How old are you? Did i bother you that much?? Damn bitch you actin like you 12
2010-07-30 10:50:23
^^^^,
Still fronting, how in the hell you're going to tell somebody else's story. Probably your twin section 8 sister. This is ghetto shit at it's finest. You presented it here and got a mainstream reaction that you didn't like. So it's now confirmed, the shit you all do in the projects, should stay in the projects. Leave the world alone with that sick shit you live by. Just pathetic.
P.S. I’m sure the baby daddy stopped by for a booty call, dropped his nut and never again to be seen, the usual.
2010-07-30 10:52:22
B,
This bitch is real dumb - you so fixated on a look and your page - who the fuck got time to keep up with Facebook Pages only ho's download their own pictures to Facebook so they can catch crabs... you crab ass bitch go drown yourself in a sea of cum.

and you stupid as a muthafucka you said we were nosey - BITCH YOU POSTED YOUR BUSINESS AND WE COMMENTED... stick to fucking for food.
2010-07-30 11:14:46
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