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HE RAPED ME DURING AND AFTER

HI EVERYONE,IM A 22 YEAR OLD WOMAN.I MET MY SO CALLED BOYFRIEND WHEN I WAS ABOUT 11.I LOST MY VIRGINITY TO HIM AROUND THE AGE OF 17 YRS OLD.SOON AFTER I BECAME PREGNANT WITH MY FIRST CHILD FOR HIM.YES I DID WHAT MANY OF US YOUNG GIRLS DO AND I DROPPED OUT OF SCHOOL.YES HE IS A DRUG DEALER.I NOTICE WHEN ALOT OF GUYS GET OUT THERE LIKE THAT THEY LOSE THEIR HEADS.HES BEEN TO JAIL QUITE A FEW TIMES.I SERIOUSLY THINK HE HAS SOMTHING AGAINST WOMEN EVER SINCE THE RELEASE OF HIS FIRST INCARCCERATION.HIS ATTITUDE WENT FROM LOVING TO BEATING ME SILLY.HELL HE WAS DATING THIS WOMAN WHILE WE WERE STILL TOGETHER AND HE KNOCKED HER FRONT TEETH OUT!3 YRS AFTER THE BIRTHING MY FIRST I GOT PREGNANT AGAIN.ONE DAY I WAS TAKING A SHOWER AND HE CAME IN BARGING IN THE BATHROOM.I THOUGHT NO ONE WAS HOME WITH ME.I WAS SO FRIGHTENED HE FLUNG THE SHOWER CURTAIN OPEN AND GRABBED ME BY THE ARM.SOAP AND ALL STILL WAS ON ME.I SAID (HIS NAME) I AINT FINISHED.HE SAID ANGRILY I DONT GIVE A FUCK.HE PUSED ME TOWARD THE COUCH IN THE LIVING ROOM(AT THAT TIME WE LIVED IN A SMALL PROJECT COMPLEX).I KNEW EXACTLY WHAT HE WANTED.I KEPT SAYIN IM COLD AND I NEED TO FINISH MY SHOWER.INSTEAD HE TOOK OF HIS PANTS AND UNDERWEAR,WHILE HOLDIN MY LEGS OPEN WITH HIS KNEES.I KNEW NOT TO HIT HIM BEAUSE HED SIMPLY FUCK ME UP.HE RAPED ME WHILE I CRIED NO AND HELP ME.(ITS WEIRD BECAUSE 2006OF JULY I WAS AT MY MOTHERS FOR A GET TOGETHER AND AND MY BRO HAD SOME FIRE CRACKERS MYFIRSTWAS SCARED OF THEM AND HE CRIED OUT HELP ME!.)I WAS SO HRT BY THAT AND I HAVE A FEELING HE GOT THAT FROM ME.N E WAY AFTER THE BIRTH OF THE SECOND THE DOCTOR SAID NO SEX FOR 6 WEEKS.GUESS WHAT HOMEBOY MUSTVE HAD AN URGE BECAUSE HE GRABBED ME 2 NITES SAFTER I GOT OUT OF THE HOSPITAL AND TOLD ME I HAD TO GIVE HIM SEX AND I SHOULD DO WHAT I GOTTA DO TO PLEASE MY MAN.IT HURT FUCKIN BAD.BUT TOO BAD FOR HIM I KNOW HE DIDNT FEEL A DAMN THING CAUSE HE HOPPED IN AND HOPPED RITE OUT FROM ME HAVIN TO PUSH OUT THE BABY.HE GOT MAD AT ME STARTED DRAGGING ME AROUND THE KITCHEN AND HIT ME ACROSS MY HEAD WITH A GLASS PLATE.YEAH I BLED ALIL BIT.FOR SOME REASON I NEVER GO TO THE POLICE.THIS I JUS HAD A BABY GIRL SEPTEMBER 28 FOR HIM.YES I KNW IM TERRIBLE FOR IT.I ALSO WANNA TELL YALL ABOUT WHEN I WAS PREGNANT WITH Y DAUGHTER HOW HE PUT A GUN TO MY HEAD RIGHT IN FRONT OF EVERYONE OUTSIDE.RIGHT BFORE HE PULLED THE TRIGGER HE THREW THE GUN ON THE GROUND AND RAN AWAY.HE COULDNT DO IT...SOMONE CALLED THE COPS I LIED AND GAVE THE COPS A DIFFERENT NAME AND I TOLD THE COPS I HAD JUS 1 KID.MY 2 SONS WERE AT THERE GRANDMOTHERS.IT MADE THE NEWS AND EVERYTHING.NOW THAT I HAVE A MONTH OLD GIRL.IM SCARED HES GOING TO DO SOMTHING TO MY DAUGHTERI HAVE TO GET HIM OUT HER LIFE FAST.HE ADN I R PITIFUL.JUS THE OTHER DAY I ASKED MY FRIEND TO TAKE ME AROUND HIS WAY.RIGHT SHE PULLED UP WE SAW HIM COUNTIN ALOOOTT OF MONEY.WHEN HE REALIZED WHO IT WAS HE HURRIED AND PUT IT AWAY.I ASKED FOR SOME CHANGE.DIS NEGRO GAVE ME THE DUMBEST STR8 FACE AND SAID IN GOT NO MONEY.I TOLD MY FRIEND LETS JUS GO.HE SAID HE WANTED TO RIDE WIT US AND DROP HIM OFF AT HIS GRANNYS WE SAID OK.HE GOT OUT THE CAR TALK ABOUT THE TRUTH ALWAYS COMES OUT ALL THIS FOOLS MONEY DROPPED OUT HIS PANTS.I SAID I THOUGHT U AINT HAD NONE.HE CAUGHT A SUPER NASTY ATTITUDE WITH A CRAZY LOOK IN HIS EYES AND SAID AND WHAT U STILL AINT GETTIN SHIT.I CANT GET AWAY FROM THIS WOMANIZING CRAZY WOMAN BEATIN FOOL MY TOWN IS TOO SMALL.WHAT DO I DO.HELL HIS KIDS DONT REALLY KNOW HIM.GIVE ME ADVICE IM JUS STARTING TO MAKE A LIVING FOR MYSELF.

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AUTHOR,

SOMETIMES IM SCARED SOMETIMES IM NOT AND ABOUT A WEEK AGO HE DIDNT KNOW THIS GIRL WAS MY COUSIN AND HE TRIED TO HOLLA AT HER.HE GOT MAD CAUSE SHE TOLD ME.HOLLERED HIS SAME HUFFLAH ABOUT HOW HE GON SHOOT ME AND HER WHEN WE CONFRONTED HIM.HES EXTREMELY BRAVE WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN HE DIDNT EVEN LIE.HE SAID TO MY CUZZO U SHOULDA PLAYED UR POSITION.HE KNOWS WE CANT BEAT HIM.YALL CAN ASK QUESTIONS IF YALL WANT.WATEVER.

2008-11-06 06:48:57

#1 Trophy-Bitch,

First of all you need to get a restraining order against his ass not only for you but for the sake of your children........you said your kids dont know him anyways you really need to get yourself together and raise your kids and keep them away from their violent father cause he is going to whind up killing somebody get your GED work on you ma better yourself for those babies cause he obviously aint worth it ...............and then he dont wanna break bread

2008-11-06 06:52:34

CECRETS,

This situation is so serious I had 2 comment without signing in.

Why don't you just leave him? You stayed with this man even though he was beating you up. Not only was he beating u up he was doing it in front of the kids. For you my dear I ask y did u continue 2 get pregnant by him? Now u have 3 kids u have 2 worry about as well as yourself.

I beg u 2 leave. If he can put a gun 2 ur head in front of every 1 and now care I'm sorry babe but he might end up killing u. Then what? He's gonna b back n jail and ur kids r gonna b motherless.

Do not let ur sons grow up around that thinking men r suppose 2 treat women like that and don't let ur daughter grow up thinking she has 2 have a man like that because u have shown her it was ok 2 b treated unworthy.

2008-11-06 07:10:40

CECRETS,

Where r u from?
I know he's bold when it comes 2 chicks but is he the same way when it comes 2 men?

He knows u can't beat him alone but if u get a couple of ur girls together meet him somewhere and yall stomp his ass out. (After u and ur kids move 2 a safe place). If u live in my area I will come help yall I'm known for cutting a nigga or two. Lol.

2008-11-06 07:16:26

courious,

Oh man girl.. you are in a bad situation but the good thing is that things can and will get better if you do a couple of things..first you need to get a restraining order, now that restraining order does not do alot to keep that man from going crazy on you but it does help in a court of law sometimes and will get the police to you quicker and ger him arrested quicker next time he goes crazy.. NEXT you have to know you can't go looking for him, asking him for shit. Nothing. Not a bottle of water. You have got to distance yourself from him as best you can. I know the kids need things but honey it is all up to do now..NEXT if you can get out of town so you can start a new life you need to do that as soon as possiable. I understand you may not have the money to move but you can find a battered women's shelter that will take in you and your kids and then you can get assistance with childcare finding a job and a roof over your head. The restraining order will help you if you seek help.

2008-11-06 07:18:09

Barbie,

O my sweet heart... And I mean that from the bottum of my heart. You know I read this stuff that people put on this poast and some of it they could have kept to them self. Honey let me tell you, YOU ARE NOT ALONE... YOU ARE NOT STUPED... Do you hear me???? I been there,, O my Girl have I been ther. The first thing you have to do is let him know you aint playing.. What I mean by that is cut off all contact with him,, I know I knwo it's not that simple but let me tell you this,, if you are tired and I mean truly TIRED of this and you want it to stop,,, you wouldnt give a fuck what happends to him rather he go's to jail or not, dont care. Why should you??? You said he's not doing anything for you but getting you pregnant and beating on you,,let him go. Thats first, then yes get a restaining order.. I know the fear of doing that but as long as you have that paper,, you can knock the liveing shit out of him if he comes near you or your kids.. You have to fight back,, your not weak nor alone

2008-11-06 07:19:26

LET ME TELL YOU THROUGH A CHILDS EYES,

OKAY I GREW UP IN THE SAME ENVIORMENT, MY MOTHER USE TO GET BEAT BY HER HUSBAND. HE WOULD BEAT HER 4 NO REASON AT ALL. BROKE HER LEG, HE USE TO BEAT ON HER IN FRONT OF ME AND MY BROS. BLACK EYES AND ALL TYPES OF BRUISES HE USE TO MOLEST ME HE DID THIS FOR YEARS (11) I NEVER TOLD MY MOM BECAUSE SHE IS A SCORN WOMAN...MY MOMMA USE TO BE NICE TO ME WHEN I WAS A KID, THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN SHE STARTED TO YELL AT ME FOR NO REASON, THEN YELLING TURNED INTO BEATINGS, AT FIRST IT WAS SIMPLE HARD HITS WITH THE BELT, THEN ONE DAY SHE SAID FUCK THE BELT AND STARTED TO USE HER HANDS AND FEET WHEN I DON'T EVEN DO SHIT.REASON WHY I'M TELLING YOU THESE THINGS BECAUSE IN THE END YOUR KIDS WILL SUFFER, THEY WILL IMITATE WHAT THEY SEE IN YOUR HOUSE HOLD, AND KIDS ARE VERY SMART BECAUSE WHEN I WAS LITTLE I USE TO TALK ABOUT WITH MY FRIEND TRUST THEY KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON MORE THAN YOU KNOW.GET YOUR DAUGHTER OUT OF THAT ENVIORMENT.RELOCATE,STOP THINKING YOU NEED HIM TO FEEL COMPLETE,AND B/C HE IS YOU B-DADDY

2008-11-06 07:28:46

Honey,

Damn... My heart goes out to you and please heed the advise mentioned above.

2008-11-06 07:36:12

AUTHOR,

IM IN CHARLESTON SOUTH CAROLINA.ITS A TOWN OF 20 THOUSAND PEOPLE.MOST PEOPLE STAY HERE FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIVES.NOTHIN WRONG WIT THAT BUT SOME MOVE TO THE A.EVERYONE KNOWS EVERYONE SO BY THE TIME IM READY TO UP AND LEAVE HE'LL KNOW WHERE IM HEADED AND HES GONNA TRY AND COME WITH ME.THE SAD PART IS I USED TO BE ONE OF THOSE TOUGH GIRLS WHOD FIGHT FOR N E ONE ELSE AND MYSELF.I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.I WAS SO DUMB ONCE I BROUGHT HIM INTO MY MOTHERS HOUSE BECAUSE IWAS STAYIN WITH HER FOR A WHILE.WELL I INVITED HIM OVER AND THINGS GOT UGLY AND HE FOUGHT ME.I THOUGHT MY BROTHER WAS AT WORK CAUSE IF I DID KNOW I WOULDNTVE BROUGHT HIM OVER THERE.N E WAY THINGS WENT WRONG WE FOUGHT.HE LITERALLY KNOCKED MY HEAD THROUGHT THE WALL.MY BROTHER HEARD US AND MY BROTHER FOUGHT HIM AND THREW HIS ASS OUT THE DOOR.MY MOTHER WAS PISSED SHE HAD TO GET THE WALL REPAIR.PEOPLE WOULD COME THROUGH AND ASKED WHAT HAPPENED TO THE WALL AND ID BE EMBARASSED TO SAY.

2008-11-06 07:40:18

Barbie,

One more thing, Do you have any felony's??? If you dont get you a gun permit with a locked box.. Go to the gun range and let off a cuple (trust me you would feel SOOOO much better). Then (legaly now) you can protect your self and your kids. 1. restraning order, 2. Get out of town, call up family, friends, tell them whats going on. The worst thing you can do is keep it to your self, I had to learn that on on my own. Look, people will shy away from a situaion if it looks like your willing to stay with him a deal with it. But if you truly want help and are willing to leave then your family, friends, even strangers will help you.. You have to be strong for your children. After so many beatings and death threats I became num to them. I went and got a restraining order on his azz and standing in that coart room, he knew I wasnt playing around. The last threat his azz gave me I told bitch you come cause I got 22.m and you gonna git some heat in your azz. Now take that to bank bitch.

2008-11-06 08:02:04

D_Town_Chix,

Oh, please get help, you have to leave.... I can't even sit here and try to past judgement on you because I know u really going thru sum shit right now. BUT ENOUGH IS ENOUGH U CAN START A NEW 2DAY IF U REALLY LUV URSELF AND UR KIDS....WAIT TIL HIS AZZ GET IN THE SHOWER AND PUT SUM BABY OIL ON THAT FLOOR AND AS SOON AS HE STEP OUT BE READY TO WHOOP HIS AZZ.... Make sure you got sum backup there first like ur brother or sumthing...stay focus and keep your head up for the sake of your children.

2008-11-06 08:37:02

get that bitch!!!!!texas helper,

look when he is walking around the house leave some tacks on the floor the best time for this is when he is in the showwer don't worry about fixing them up just put at least 4 boxes of tacks on the floor make sure the door is closed while he is taking a shower, before doing this have you some hot ass grease cooking have in enough in there so you can hold and walk with it with out spillage have your kinfolk hiding in one of the baby's room make sure they are all males even the teenagers, as soon as he steps out on those tacks be ready to pur that hot ass grease on his skin then yell for your kin and tear that ass up!!!!

2008-11-06 09:30:04

MimaGurl,

Man ! I say youu find help watch the movie Enough [ the movie wit JLO ] nd while he'sz sleep one night get sum hot gritsz nd poor it on hisz ass

Well I wish youu nd ur kidsz the best nd itsz all up to youuu..youu have to be the turnin point of thisz situation

2008-11-06 09:36:10

ok ladies!,

Sooooooo.. sweetie you can see that why have all come to the same solution just in different ways...

1- GET A RESTRAINING ORDER
2- LEAVE TOWN
3-ASK FRIENDS OR FAMILY FOR HELP.. in your case since everyone you would usually ask for help may not believe you really want it or will not be willing to help I would say you take your kids and go to a battered women's shelter OUT OF TOWN! NY, CA, FL ANYWHERE!. You will get the protection and guidance you need there. You kids will have a safe haven and you can get assistance with finding a home for your family, childcare and looking for work.
4-DON't LOOK BACK... you better forget any parts of the good times you thought you had with him and remember him for who he is.. a selfish, abusive, man who would kill your children's mother if he could. Who is to say that when your head when thru the wall, that you could have broken your neck? Or cracked your skull? YOUR KIDS DESERVE BETTER. IF YOU DON'T DO IT FOR YOURSELF. DO IT FOR THEM.

2008-11-06 09:58:44

courious,

Psychology of the Battered Woman Syndrome
FOUR PSYCHOLOGICAL STAGES OF
THE BATTERED WOMAN SYNDROME
DENIAL
The woman refuses to admit--even to herself--that she has been beaten or that there is a "problem" in her marriage. She may call each incident an "accident". She offers excuses for her husband's violence and each time firmly believes it will never happen again.
GUILT
She now acknowledges there is a problem, but considers herself responsible for it. She "deserves" to be beaten, she feels, because she has defects in her character and is not living up to her husband's expectations.
ENLIGHTENMENT
The woman no longer assumes responsibility for her husband's abusive treatment, recognizing that no one "deserves" to be beaten. She is still committed to her marriage, though, and stays with her husband, hoping they can work things out.
RESPONSIBILITY
Accepting the fact that her husband will not, or can not, stop his violent behavior, the battered woman

2008-11-06 10:03:39

dis bytch iz 2 sad,

what da fuk iz wrong wit chu hun honestly i sympathize what your goin thru but afta he raped u shud hav bin out den wen he cracked ur cranium wit dat glass plate bitch dat nigga shuda bin dead. deuces

2008-11-06 10:06:57

courious,

http://www.sccadvasa.org/

This is the website( above) for help and resources for battered women and children in South Carolina.

2008-11-06 10:06:59

try me i dare u,

STR8 UP THOSE KINDA NIGGAS R PUNKS CUZ THEY KNOW THEY WOULD NEVA STEP 2 A NIGGA WIT DAT SHIT. THOSE R THE SAME KINDA MEN THAT LIKE SUBMISSIVE WOMEN CUZ THEY DO WATEVA THEY SAY. IF I WAS U I WOULD BOIL SUM HOT WATER ON THE STOVE, KEEP A KNIFE ON ME AT ALL TIMES(SELF DEFENSE) FUCK HIS CAR UP(IF HE GOT 1)I MEAN SOME DIRTY SHIT LIKE SUPER GLUE IN THE LOCKS,SLICE THE TIRES AND THE SEATS, STRIP THE PAINT,BUST THE WINDOWS, PUT HIS ASS ON CRAIGSLIST FOR THE M4M SECTION LEAVE HIS NUMBER,HIS MAMA NUMBER AND WHOEVER ELSE HE KNO CUZ NO WOMAN DESERVES TO BE ANYBODY'S PUNCHING BAG STR8. HONESTLY I WOULD FIGHT 2 DA DEATH.I KNOW ALOTA HOES DAT B BEATIN THEY NIGGA ASS AND TRUST ME ITS EMBARASSING.MY DADDY NEVA TOUCH MY MAM CUZ SHE WAS NEVA AFRAID TO FIGHT BACK.I GUESS SHE LIKED A GOOD FIGHT. HE WOULD JUST LAUGH BUT HE WAS NEVER BRAVE ENOUGH TO HIT HER BACK.IF U GOT BROTHERS,UNCLES OR COUSINS U SHO NEED TO PUT THEM TO USE.

2008-11-06 10:11:59

dont' feel bad for her,

i know that all of you seem to feel sorry for this woman. but i do not! she has felt the consequences of this man's actions and has continued to be with him and continue to have children for him. she is with him for a reason, and will continue to be with him. i know she says now that she wants to get away, but in fact she may get away but will go back to being with this man, it is in her nature. he does these things to her because he knows that he can get away with it and she will continue to go back to him, no matter what. i refuse to believe that she will leave. she has used too many excuses. this is america, a free country and this woman is talking about how she can't leave her small town. sounds ridiculous. if she is serious about leaving, she can file as a victim of domestic abuse on welfare and get on section 8 in a different town. but i doubt she will do that, a woman who has children and accepts this behavior doesn't really care about her kids, she cares about having a man

2008-11-06 10:16:37

AUTHOR,

WOW U REALLY R LOW.by the way r u a man or a woman.trust me when i tell u honey when i tell u that that having a man shit is overrated.BY THE WAY N E ONE WHO KNOWS ME CAN TELL U ABOUT HOW MUCH I LOVE MY CHILDREN.U DO NOT KNOW A MOTHERS PAIN CLEARLY.CLEARLY UR A MAN OR UR A WOMAN WHO HASNT HAD KIDS YET.A WOMAN CARES ABOUT HER KIDS BFORE HERSELF ON N E DAY SO GET RIGHT.I KNOW THATS ALOT COMIN FROM ME BUT DAMN.WHO R U TO JUDGE.TRUST ME I CAN BE WITH OTHER MEN AND I HAVE TRIED SWEETHEART.BUT THE MAN THAT IM WITH SERIOUSLY WONT LET ME LEAVE.IO KNOW HES A PUNK HE LOVES PULLING GUNS ON PEOPLE INCLUDING ME AND OTHER GUYS IVE TRIED TO BE WITH.TELLING EVERYONE THATS MY BITCH SO WHEN U SEE HER U KNOW THATS ME.ALSO I DONT REALLY WANT A MAN BUT I DONT WANT TO BE WITH OTHER GUYS BECAUSE IT IS WAY IMMORAL AND MY MIND HAS BEEN STUCK WITH HIM SINCE I WAS 12.THEN U TRY TO DISS THE FACT THAT IM POOR TALKIN ABOUT GO TO ANOTHER SECTION 8.PLEASE HONEY.U DO NOT KNOW A MOTHERS PAIN SO SHUT UP.U AINT SAYIN NAN

2008-11-06 10:42:39

AUTHOR,

BY THE WAY I STATED AT THE END OF MY PARAGRAPH ABOUT HOW I CANT LEAVE BECAUSE IM JUS GETTIN SITUATED WIT A WELL PAYIN JOB CLEANING WATCHING AND BATHING THE ELDERLY AND SICK.IM JUS GETTIN SITUATED SO I CANT LEAVE BCAUSE OF MY FINACIAL SITUATION HONIE.

2008-11-06 10:47:07

I understand,

I was in the exact same situation just not as long. I became pregnant when I was 16 and dropped out of school. Just find a good support system. I am 18 now and I go to school and work. My son is now 20 months old and hasn't seen his "father" since he was 5 months.. The reason why is because I called the police and they found out he had a bunch of other charges. My son is doing well and we have a good man in our life

2008-11-06 11:13:59

courious,

Author, you are more concerned about a "good" paying job wiping elderly people's asses than your own life? Are you serious? Being on section 8 to get housing because you are a victim has nothing to do with being low budget. There are women who come from good money and husbands who made good money but have to resort to that housing just to be able to get on their own two feet on their own. They are serious about getting help. You are not. I thought you may want to use the information I left for you but you are no ways ready or willing to accept change and happiness in your life or in your kids life. I wish you well and I hope I don't hear about you in the news.

2008-11-06 12:03:39

child boo,

I was really sittin here hurting for you until you went off on your little tangent. You need to use that fly azz mouth on your baby daddy, not on folks trying to help you. How you gone get some bravery now? Use that energy to go and find some help for you and those babies.

2008-11-06 13:00:04

???,

Stack up and move away. That's it. Dont ask for child support or if you do sent it to a P.O Box.

Stack your money and move away NOW!

2008-11-06 14:48:29

EXCUSES,

In a way I feel sorry for u and in a way I don't. You chose to stick around with this nigga knowin that he was no good... And u kept having babies wit this crazy muthafucka.. It is amazin how people always cry for help but dont want to take the advise of others. I also live in SC and actually lived in Charleston for a few years, so if u really wanted some help there are places that will help u. Sounds to me like u r makin excuses instead of handlin ur biz. It's great that u found a job and u can get a job like that anywhere in SC. It don't take much to move if u really wanted to and trust me when i say that there is help out there that will help u get urself situated. U seem to take offense to what people r tellin u, but remember u the one that wanted advise. Please don't end up makin urself a statistic because u to afraid to make a move. SC dont play that domestic violence shit. REAL TALK BOO GET IT TOGETHER AND STOP MAKIN THESE FUCKIN EXCUSES!!!!

2008-11-06 14:49:02

fashiion barbie,

damm gutl yuh in a fucced up relationship....dis ni99a don give a fucc bout yuh , n yuh da mother of his children, dat should be enough of a resson 2 dipp out on his ass...but i agree yuh ned 2 get sum hot ass grease or grits or sumthing nn lite his ass on fire.., n weh dass happenig play dat busta rhymes song to go wiff it,make him feel da pain yuh went thrugh ass dose tymes..any court will have sorrow 4 yuh when yur on trail...... anywayz but get da fucc out or we'll cee you on the 10 o clock news!!!!!!!!!

2008-11-06 15:38:49

I dont get it....,

I'm with the people on here saying they donft feel bad 4 you...I'm a young mother and trust me I KNOW it's hard...I dont get any help from family and friends and I struggle everyday(luckily I picked a GOOD MAN to have babies with!)...but If I had a man before I got pregnant beating me and he went to jail my ass would've BEEN GONE...and wiping peoples shit off they ass you can do that ANYWHERE...get off your ass and GET AWAY...if you don't then you might not be around to see your kids...cut the shit and do what you gotta do for your kids not even you!

2008-11-06 15:51:07

don't feel sorry for her,

i'm the that posted don't feel sorry for her. i am a 26 yr old woman, no kids. i'll tell you what this young ladys' problems are, accountability, responsibility and a learning disorder. yes i said it people. she is retarded. i blame the school system for not diagnosing her learning disorder early. her mindset is one of a rebellious 13 yr old at 22. she plays the victim role so well, but the real victims here are her kids. i'm tired of these women play the blame game when they are active participants in their own abuse, she said she gave the cops the wrong name,she gets rides to go see him& on top of that asks for money. this woman refuses to take the proper steps to get out of harm's way. she can move, but she won't. she knows that her children are in danger, but comes up with excuses. she is a good example of garbage, don't feel sorry for her, we live in america, not afganistan, this woman has options, she chooses not to take them. she is trash

2008-11-06 21:36:55

concern about you.,

if you love your poor lil innocent kids you better get out now and go into hiding Im sure you got family in other states. hell go to another state and live in a shelter til you get on your feet. do something dont just be stupid cause he's gonna kill you and possible your kids to. you cant wait on something bad to happen take control of your life now. take my word I been in similar situation.took me 7 years to get out. But the lord saw fit to spare my life them 7 years. and now thats 4 years behind me and Im happily married and argue and fight free. girl go .and dont look back. Its gonna be your fault if he does something stupid.

2008-11-08 10:05:54

Peanut Butter,

Your not silly - you dont need any advice from us because you know eventually you will leave your house in a coffin with all your children's next to yours if you dont get away from him.

He only treats you the way you allow him to.

2008-11-21 16:37:04

ok...,

so you want help but since u got this job you tryin to stay in the same town as this man bein a victim of a man beatin me i was young too i just thought i couldnt do any better and i let it go on for soo long he wouldnt let me leave the house i had a damn good job he made me leave it then one day shit i jus snaped! i started throwin shit at him then i jumped on his ass and beat him the fuck down i didnt know i had that much in me i jus couldnt take that shit no more and i got my shit and left havent looked backed since you got all thse people on here givin you this information and you not tryin to use it bothers me if its jus cause he is youb-daddy then listen he dont care bout u like u said u his bitch and his toliet cause he shittin all over you u can get another job like this else where u dont need that punk u need a man that will take care of you and your kids and let your fam beat his ass trust u will feel better but move first then let em beat his ass

2008-11-23 02:05:33

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