Messy man!!!

I met this wonderful man he's 45 and i'm 32.  We met online and decided to meet after 2 weeks of internet chatting and phone chatting.  When we met I thought he was "average" looking a tad bit on the "frumpy" side as nothing stood out particularly striking on him.  On the otherhand he thought I was beautiful.  Our date was wonderful probably one o f the best dates of my life.  Anyway fast forward three weeks later I explained to him about my 3 month rule with sex and he agreed to wait.  Anyway we decided that he could eat my pussy.  Well we met and I got in his car which  I must say is messy!  I asked him why he keeps his car so messy and he did not have an answer.  Like coffee cups, McDonald bags, tissue...nasty!  Since he has a nice "spirit" I did not want to hurt his feelings so we went to Staten Island to a secluded area I let the seat back and he ate my pussy.  After that I was like take me home...I didn't feel comfortable in his car and had to put my jacket under my ass because I did not want my ass touching his carseat.  About a week later he wanted to eat me again but said his house wasn't clean so he took me to a hotel...and ate my pussy for hours.  I must admit the man can devour a pussy.  Anyway about a week later he wanted to eat my pussy again and asked me to come to his house.  I was hesitant because I don't like filth and I'd already seen his car and he said his place wasn't clean but I thought he meant just a little untidy.  Anyway his pussy eating skills was calling me to go and I went.  Well when we got to his place I almost died.  It was filthy beyond anything I've ever seen.  From  kitchen to the livingroom, to the bedroom, to the bathroom......I was so turned off  i did not want to sit down.  I let him eat me standing up.  He is a slob beyond my wildest dreams.  How can a man who looks ok, works hard, and eats a mean pussy live like that.  I told him and really hurt his feelings about his place how disgusting it was and how I couldn't even sit down however  I really like him he has a good heart.  I have offered to help clean but I would need a huge dumpster and a maid service (which I can't afford)  to come "embalm" his place.  Question: Do you stop dating a man who lives like that or what?  Please give me some advice because I don't want to lose out on a potentially "good" man because he has 1 BIG HUGE NASTY DISGUSTING flaw.  THIS IS REALLY WEIRD!!